Patterns in relationship
This is from a consultation circa 2015. This gas was dating a married man who had lied to her. “…I don’t think it is bad to “settle”. It’s imperative that people who are prone to fantasy (like me and you), learn to settle! I am happily married now. If I had held out for everything […]
Hi, Elsa. I’m experiencing the lack of challenge and growth in my one and one half year long relationship with my boyfriend. We have the same birthdate. Late November. Same year. We are both difficult, stubborn, angry bitches and hard to live with. So much connection, friendship, passion, things in common personality-wise and deep love
Dear Elsa, About two months ago, my first serious boyfriend of about a year dumped me flat on my ass. Not just broke up with me – dumped me. He left me for someone else while I was away at school, told me a month after the fact in a letter, and didn’t even have
I have a client who is aware of his self-centeredness. The tendency is shown in his chart. He grew up with tremendous privilege which probably encouraged his proclivity to put himself first. I think he is trying to overcome this but he may just be trying to learn how to appear that he’s thinking of
A reader asks: Regarding the opposite sex: what is the number one astrology aspect or configuration that you stay away from? As in, what, if anything stands out as a ‘signal’ or red flag for you (for you personally), and is this due to personal experiences?
Have you ever dated someone who doesn’t really like you? I made these two similar but different videos a few years ago. I’m not surprised I felt compelled to rant about this more than once. They’re super short but informative. If you have Venus in aspect to Neptune or Saturn, chances are excellent you’ll relate to
Elsa’s blog post about Scapegoating got me thinking. One of the most common things I am asked about is the pattern of boundary issues and enmeshment. Enmeshment is when you stop being able to figure out where you end and your partner begins. It can feel wonderful at first, because you’ve merged completely with another
