Patterns in relationship
Have you heard the term, “vertical search”? If not, you can expect to hear a lot about it over the coming months. These days it seems people can’t agree on what certain words or phrases mean. If you’re interested, here are two articles which explain what “vertical search” is. They don’t exactly agree! Why Vertical […]
Speaking of deal breakers in relationship, my husband always says that you can’t turn blood on blood. To me, old friends are like blood.
My husband and I got into a rousing debate over this one. Let’s say a person misrepresents their character in order to form a relationship with someone who might reject them otherwise. How long do you think they can go without their character flaw being revealed? Can you elaborate? Where is your Venus?
I wrote about “gaslighting” in today’s newsletter – Invisible Gas Attack. A reader in the United States asks: “That term Gaslighting, could it be a type of hypnosis? And could there ever be a time, you feel, it could be for a good rather than just for selfish purpose? De demonization things can sometimes help
Sometimes it’s best if you give a person space (and time) to work out the kinks in their life. A person who is acting wonky may be trying hard to carve out a niche for themselves…
My husband thinks a lot about the love between us. He believes the subject to be deep and so vast it will take the rest of our lives to try to understand. I figure he is probably right. Last night he picked a corner of one of the things he wonders about and threw it
This may be an odd question but it’s a serious one. Let’s say you meet someone and you’re around them regularly for some reason. Perhaps you work with them. And you realize they irk you. They may irk you a little. They may irk you a lot or it may vary or change over time.
