Patterns in relationship
Dear Elsa, My fiance recently broke off our engagement after cheating on me!! Things couldn’t have been better for the two years we were together. Then on the night of his birthday, he went out with his two single friends and made some serious mistakes. He didn’t call me for three days, and then when he finally called, […]
Hi Elsa, I’ve been through two disastrous marriages, and I’m wondering what fate has in store for me now. As I reflect on the past 35 years, I see a pattern of allowing myself to be a doormat when it comes to men. Now that I’m am on my own, I’ve become independent and quite
Hi Elsa, I seem to attract emotional cripples who balk when I won’t put up with their shabby behavior. I was content to have fantasy-riddled correspondences with foreign penpals. But then I met T. We clicked instantly. We discovered a common interest in astrology and compared charts. I very much liked what I saw –
Hi Elsa, I am a single woman at midlife. I am seriously starting to wonder if I will ever find and marry my life companion. I have built for myself a secure and pleasant life. I enjoy my work, hobbies and small circle of close friends and family. But I can’t shake an increasing sense
