Patterns in relationship
Dear Elsa, The old saying goes, “If you love someone, set them free”. But when that someone is bound tightly to your heart, setting them free feels like cutting off a piece of yourself. There is a man I can’t get out of my head and my heart. I don’t know if I’m stubborn and […]
Help! I’m so lost lately. I’m a Pisces who can’t break out of this cycle I have with men. Men I don’t like fall for me, while I fall for men who are disinterested. It’s causing some serious frustration and depression. I could be a poster child for Pisces women. I am in love with
Hi Elsa, I have unrequited love for my closest friend, who *says* he’s not interested, but sometimes *acts* interested (affectionate and kind of flirty). I keep trying to ignore my own feelings, but that is not working very well! I’m not happy with the situation, and sometimes think I should just quit being around him
Dear Elsa, I have a bad habit of “crushing”. It’s excruciating because I’m at a place in my life where I really don’t even have the time to date. I just bought a house and am attempting to make ends meet (knot them together, really) with two jobs, weekends used for upkeep, etc. Anyhow, I’ll
Dear Elsa, I always end up being too eager when I meet a guy I really like. Most of the time, I am not interested in anything romantic with people I meet, though it’s always friendly & fun conversation. Then I’ll meet a guy I really like and even if he is chasing me originally,
Elsa, I recently got married to a man that I considered to be perfect. I had never known anyone like him – he didn’t seem to have a lot of the typical “male” behaviors, and I respected and admired that about him. I had asked him about pornography in the past… not in an accusatory
Hi Elsa – I have loved a younger man for the last 5 years. I got involved with him because of how he made me feel. But last year, I felt forced to face the age difference. I placed an ultimatum before him to move out if he didn’t get a job, since for the
