I had a client this morning, she’s stuck in the drudgery of being herself. I don’t mean that in a bad way. We’re all stuck in our patterns, right up until the minute we’re not. This gal happens to have … Read More…
Category Archives: Relating
As astrologers we can see see things in charts that can and have caused problems in our lives. I spoke with a client this morning who is concerned about various patterns of behavior in her past. She can point to … Read More…
“It’s not up to me to make amends when they made it clear that my presence and voice and existence is offensive. You don’t come back from that.” That’s an excerpt from a comment, Jennifer, wrote on Are There People … Read More…
When a person is under stress, it’s common to choose a shadow person to blame. I do it. I bet you do it too. You’re all keyed up so you start thinking about this person you don’t like. It distracts … Read More…
Hi Elsa! My Saturn squares my male friend’s Mars. His Mars is in Leo, and I find small things like him sneezing or coughing too loud really, really annoying and off-putting. We tried to date years ago but it didn’t … Read More…
I had a consult with a gal, worried about what might be lurking beneath the surface in her marriage. Her marriage was good and solid and had been long-lasting but she had these concerns. In reality there are always things “lurking beneath … Read More…
Venus is conjunct Uranus in Aries at this time. These planets are squaring Pluto in Capricorn. People are posed to snap and cut you off. It may help to deconstruct this. First, Venus mashed with Uranus loves “space”. If you … Read More…
A man sent me this: But here’s the thing – and I’ve wanted to say this forever: I’ve seen you talk about this Saturn/Venus thing for a long long time, and it’s true. Saturn is a killer. Venus can be … Read More…
Hi Elsa! You write about ‘frustrated mars’ quite frequently. How bad is a jacked up Venus, compared to that, in a chart? Thanks from India Good question, India. While a poorly aspected Venus can cause a lot of problems, I … Read More…
Hi Elsa: I’ve noticed that in relationships, I tend to be happy to adapt to the other person a lot…. friendship, family, romance, whatever. They adapt too, of course, because every relationship has some level of compromise. But I’m perfectly … Read More…