When under stress, it’s common to choose a shadow person to blame. I do it. I bet you do it too. You’re all keyed up so you start thinking about this person you don’t like. It distracts you. This is … Read More…
Category Archives: Relating
Do you have a chart full of trines? I do, for the most part. In contrast, my husband’s chart is jarring. It’s dominated by a T-square involving Mars and Saturn for one thing. Related What Is The Difference Between Synastry … Read More…
If you have your moon in the seventh, or if you are a Capricorn rising, it’s a good bet you have an emotional need to be partnered. This would be true, whether you know it or not. As I’ve mentioned … Read More…
Since I’ve been on a kick of debunking common self-care myths, let me tackle the biggest one of all: that you have to fully love yourself before you can love and be loved by others. Like most of these ideas, … Read More…
My husband and I were talking about a person we know. There are very few people he loves or likes or cares to be around. Consequently he’s lonely. He doesn’t like this either. Related Competing With A Person’s Fantasy What’s … Read More…
It’s hard to look at yourself objectively. It’s also hard to find a friend who will be honest with you about what he or she might notice as far as patterns in your life that seem to create problems. Astrology … Read More…
“What about a chart without oppositions? Or a chart that has only one, for example — compare that with a chart that has many…” If a chart has no oppositions then it has something else. This is like asking, “What … Read More…