Snap Judgment – a judgment formed on the instant without deliberation. (free dictionary) I try get a hack on people right away and hope they do the same when they’re dealing with me. This is necessary when working as an … Read More…
Category Archives: Relating
I was talking to a gal about the fact she does not seem to have the ability to leave a relationship. The men have to leave her, typically on their own volition though it would be hard to say that … Read More…
Some people don’t realize they’re living in a house of cards. They may be involved in some high-risk affair. The kind of thing where most would realize, it’s inevitable they’ll be caught. But they think the situation is stable! Some … Read More…
kr made an interesting comment on an old forum post: “Some people get more attention for their insistent failures than they would for a minor or moderate success — so they stick with the thing they get the most attention … Read More…
I wrote this when Saturn was transiting Libra, circa 2011. I thought it might be off-putting to some, but others desperately wanted these things defined because they desperately wanted to overcome their problems in relationships. Saturn in Capricorn is squaring Libra. … Read More…
Today, I’m going to talk to a gal I have known for nearly twenty years. Yes! She’s been around this blog, and it’s predecessor, since nearly day one. She has a new man. Thinking about talking to her, I feel … Read More…
One pattern I see constellate over and over in consultations has to do with pressure. Invariably, one person will want something from the other, whether it be more sex, affection, conversation, whatever. And in order to get that, they push. … Read More…