Getting married, being married, staying married.
Dear Elsa, Basically I have lost trust in my husband since discovering his secret use of porn a year and a half ago. I have been with my husband for 18 years and married for 12 of them. We have two boys 13 and 15. I have addressed so much about our relationship but he […]
Dear Elsa, My husband & I have been separated for six months. He left me because he felt we needed some time apart, so I filed for DIVORCE. But I wasn’t really sure about following through with it! However after months went by, I began dating someone else – and they decided to throw me
Hi Elsa I have 3 kids and have been married for almost 7 years. Hubby has been looking at and hiding porn from day one. I told him how it makes me feel (alone and alienated) and how I despise people who lie. Over the years, I caught him with porn at work and at
Dear Elsa, My husband is a Pisces. Lately he has been withdrawn. We talked and he said he is “through”. He is very tired and unhappy. He told me he is thinking of moving out for a couple of months, but that he does not want a divorce and it does not mean he doesn’t
Dear Elsa, I am currently in the depths of hell! I am married to a Gemini and the marriage has been over for four years now. I have let go of all of that and we are only in it for our daughter now. But I am so lonely, I could die! I have been
Dear Elsa, I am married to an Aquarius. We have been very happy together and have had no problems. A couple of months ago, I met a Virgo. The first time I saw him, I had an immediate attraction to him. Now, he is long gone but I still can’t get him out of my
Dear Elsa, I got married about 8 months ago, and instantly we fell into a domestication that makes me feel trapped and angry. I am unaware of how to change the problem. I imagine myself expressing these concerns to my husband and asking for more of an open like relationship where we decide what we
