I am perceived as someone who knows how to deal with grievous loss or trauma and the perception is correct. Once, I took a blow that knocked me for a loop. I felt like I was drowning. I know I … Read More…
Category Archives: Advice
This is an old post, worth a new look with Saturn in Capricorn… “You can’t hit the brakes”, my husband, explained. He was referring to things like aging. People age, kids grow up, move out and move on, you reap … Read More…
Hortense quoted my statement on Depression, Coping With Life Threatening Illness: “These are all Jupiter-ruled things but I have really seen work well to buoy people is when they are LEARNING something and I am talking about SPORT.” And she … Read More…
Recently, I was talking about the second Saturn return to a gal who is in the middle of her first Saturn return. I explained, she was in her twenties. She still had time to do just about anything. If she … Read More…
Gemini in the United States asks, “Can you only be in love with one person at a time?” Interesting question. My husband talks about how English is limited as compared to Spanish, when it comes to “love”. We have one … Read More…
Hello! Would having any stellium in the 8th house make someone seem more scorpion like even if they don’t have Scorpio as one of their main aspects (sun, moon, asc)? I’m a Capricorn but have five planets in the 8th … Read More…
Elsa is it normal to have a crush on someone else while in a relationship? How do I dismiss the feeling so I can focus on my fiancé? I feel like a dirtbag but talking to someone about it will … Read More…
Dear Elsa, You’ve written a lot about projecting shadows on others. I’m not sure if this is the same thing, but when a person falls in love, everything about the love object seems perfect. Then after a breakup, it’s possible … Read More…
I’m at a point in my career where I’ve consulted with thousands of people. I’ve always enjoyed it, but it’s gotten more and more rewarding over the years. I love this job. I also like to challenge myself. The Venus … Read More…
Elsa, I have an anxiety. I told my Scorpio husband I wanted a divorce because I was nervous about a girl I didn’t know that he was deployed with even though she was in a relationship. He now says he … Read More…