I’m a gay Capricorn man interested in an Aquarian. Our relationship was physical in the beginning but I developed intense feelings for him. I came forward with how I felt and he retreated, saying he just wants to be friends. I was brokenhearted.
Now, we’re in the same cluster of friends and I can’t avoid seeing him, unless I give up my other friends which of course is out of the question. I have been trying hard to forget my feelings for him and have a normal, friendly relationship. I think he tries too, but I know he is still uncomfortable with the knowledge that I harbor feelings for him. At times he ignores me, perhaps intentionally, which hurts. I in turn pretend it doesn’t bother me, and act respectfully with nonchalance – until I am alone, when I get depressed over it.
Ideally I would like him to give me another chance romantically. I know I should move on, but I’m not sure how best to deal with this.
I was surprised by your chart. I thought this was going to be dense writing but in fact there is an easy fix here if you opt to take.
The man in question is a double Aquarius with Mars in Gemini. He is a virtual air balloon and he is allllll wrong for you. In fact, he could not possibly be less appropriate for you considering your transits.
With Pluto (deep) coming to conjoin your Venus in Capricorn, you are headed in a direction this guy cannot take you. He is simply too light fare and I would look at his exit as a gift from the universe, and right in every way. It is right for him and it is right for you.
I say, leave him to flit. You are headed for a deep relationship which will move and empower in you in ways you have never experienced and this guy is just not the guy who can deliver. Let him go. You are about to be hijacked / kidnapped by someone much more substantial and once this happens the double Aquarian will be but a blip who crossed your screen.
pictured – Detail of Pluto in a quadriga from the painted decoration on the throne from the Tomb of Eurydike, circa 340 BC, Vergina, Tomb of Eurydike.