I have Venus square Neptune. My experience with Venus square Neptune: Unrequited love. I’d rather fantasize about having a wonderful relationship instead of putting forth the effort to obtaining one. The foot work is way too difficult.
Plain and simple. How do I stop this destructive love pattern.
Dream Lover, you can equate this problem to alcoholism. “I’d like to quit drinking but it’s not worth the effort. It’s just way too hard.” As long as you feel this way you are going to continue on track.
In the future (just like the alcoholic) you may decide to solve your problem as the negative consequences stack up. You may also decide to stay on course which is actually most likely for the same reason most alcoholics keep drinking. It’s because to do otherwise is too daunting.
If you do decide to address this (sober up) you will have to come to terms with the mundane. The man farts for example. But I can tell you from personal experience (I also have Venus square Neptune) that is entirely possible to create bliss in a real relationship with the same energy that is now doing you in and it’s not that hard.
You and I (and other Venus Neptune types) have the ability to romanticize anything. We can dream up a homeless drug addict, a man on death row or a turd in the street if we really wanted to.
This is a talent, there can be no denying so what you do is get yourself a real man, one who loves and deserves you and from there on out you dream him up exclusively and that is that. Problem solved!
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