If you have Black Moon Lilith in Gemini, the pain you’ve faced through your Lilith placement has made you intelligent and adaptable. You figured out that information is a weapon, and you know how to wield it.
However your Lilith wounds have manifested (which you can tell from house placement), you’ve learned that more information can often mean more ammunition. You now place information selectively, choosing your words carefully. You have a magic knack for saying a whole lot without ever revealing anything. After a lifetime of not being heard or having your words weaponized against you, people have to really earn access to your authenticity.
You also make sure to arm yourself. When in doubt, you research, learn, and collect minutiae. You’ve been down more Wikipedia and YouTube rabbit holes than you care to admit. You’ve spent many long nights trying to hold down the anxiety by cramming more and more information into your brain. You may have learned to rely on your intellect at the expense of your intuition.
And when things are really tough, when you’re backed into a corner, or when someone tries to pin you down, you are an expert at evasion. Verbally bobbing and weaving, changing topics, white lies, and breezing right past potential conflict are your specialties. You’re great at using a million words to say nothing. You may also just go entirely silent. Because if what you say is used against you, why say anything meaningful at all?
The best way to mitigate this frustration is to channel Gemini’s opposite sign, Sagittarius. Sagittarius is radically honest, not because honesty is safe, but because hiding your soul is even more dangerous. Sagittarius also puts knowledge into a broader context, allowing you to see your wounds as part of a larger narrative, which relieves some of the immediacy of the pain. There’s a bigger story here, and you are a vital player.
There is so much more to this placement, but let me leave you with this: Your authentic voice is so important. Your thoughts and opinions matter. It’s okay to not want to confront powers that couldn’t appreciate you anyway. But never lose connection with your own soul. There, you’ll find all the answers you need.
Is your Black Moon Lilith in Gemini? What is it like?