Black Moon Lilith in Gemini – Information Warrior

lilith geminiIf you have Black Moon Lilith in Gemini, the pain you’ve faced through your Lilith placement has made you intelligent and adaptable. You figured out that information is a weapon, and you know how to wield it.

However your Lilith wounds have manifested (which you can tell from house placement), you’ve learned that more information can often mean more ammunition. You now place information selectively, choosing your words carefully. You have a magic knack for saying a whole lot without ever revealing anything. After a lifetime of not being heard or having your words weaponized against you, people have to really earn access to your authenticity.

You also make sure to arm yourself. When in doubt, you research, learn, and collect minutiae. You’ve been down more Wikipedia and YouTube rabbit holes than you care to admit. You’ve spent many long nights trying to hold down the anxiety by cramming more and more information into your brain. You may have learned to rely on your intellect at the expense of your intuition.

And when things are really tough, when you’re backed into a corner, or when someone tries to pin you down, you are an expert at evasion. Verbally bobbing and weaving, changing topics, white lies, and breezing right past potential conflict are your specialties. You’re great at using a million words to say nothing. You may also just go entirely silent. Because if what you say is used against you, why say anything meaningful at all?

The best way to mitigate this frustration is to channel Gemini’s opposite sign, Sagittarius. Sagittarius is radically honest, not because honesty is safe, but because hiding your soul is even more dangerous. Sagittarius also puts knowledge into a broader context, allowing you to see your wounds as part of a larger narrative, which relieves some of the immediacy of the pain. There’s a bigger story here, and you are a vital player.

There is so much more to this placement, but let me leave you with this: Your authentic voice is so important. Your thoughts and opinions matter. It’s okay to not want to confront powers that couldn’t appreciate you anyway. But never lose connection with your own soul. There, you’ll find all the answers you need.

Is your Black Moon Lilith in Gemini? What is it like?

Consult with Midara.

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Black Moon Lilith in Gemini – Information Warrior — 10 Comments

  1. 7 degree Gemini Lilith here… that´s a perfect description of it.
    Also my Jupiter is in 20 Gemini
    Both close to my MC… My rising is in Virgo.

  2. I have this placement natally.. both my Chiron and Lilith are in Gemini, 8th house. Thank you for your empathetic interpretation and advice! Feels like you truly understand.. ??

  3. I have BML in Gemini in the eleventh house opposite my Sagittarius sun, 18 degrees. Yes, I am an information hoarder but not necessarily as ammunition as a primary cause for my hoarding behavior. I enjoy the aha- moments when I can have a glimpse of the whole picture. However, I have had a BML-moment where I used information as ammunition and stopped a painful conversation between an ignorant and sexist group of male researchers and a female phd-student who was almost in tears because of their sexist arguments. It was almost a shameful pleasure to get back and point out the lack of knowledge in their arguments and make references to a highly known researcher that they should have known. They stopped and did not try to make the same arguments again. I think that episode changed my status in the research group. Many did not talk to me. A couple a years later I was expelled from that research group after I protested when a senior researcher tried to steal my research. I finished my PhD without much support. I have left the university but have not stopped my “information hoarding” though;-D

    • Welcome, Maria! I’m sorry people reacted poorly, but I think you did a great thing by defending that PhD student. Standing up for the underdog – that is Lilith at her best! <3

      • Too right Midara! My Black Moon Lilith is in Virgo and shes laughing and clapping her hands right now and wishes she was in the room during the set down.Its why I love my fellow Mercurian Gemini
        The verbal exchange must have been memorable

  4. Black Moon Lilith in Gemini (6th house) here. But, I also have Saturn, Chiron, and my north node all in Aries in the 3rd house. And I have Saturn oppose Mercury natally. Communication issues have been a huge, huge theme for me. It gets old, that’s for sure.

  5. I just got out of a situationship w a dude w his lilith in gemini- exactly conjunct my sun. That guy was a sweet talker n a liar n i knew but i couldnt catch him. Eventually his guilt got the best of him. I shouldve walked away a lot sooner than i did but we also had moon/mars conj n it was irresistable.

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