I was just talking to denamaria yesterday, we have similar natures. Lots of Cap and Libra that is. I told her about some people who betrayed me and she told me about some people who betrayed her.
We agreed over the audacity of people who do this kind of thing and still talk to you. What the hell are they thinking?
denamaria lost her job awhile back, you may recall. She’s recovered since because she’s an excellent worker but has learned that her “friends” orchestrated it. They told her all about it; how they had to screw her up to save themselves. They are now out of work too and expecting sympathy. They obviously felt their actions were justified since they’re talking all about it and it just goes to show the variance in the standards people have.
“Why do people do this to us?” I asked. “They must think we can take it, is that it?”
She thought maybe it was.
“I think they think you’re nice,” I said. “You’re seen as nice so no one thinks you’ll go off on them. Oh, denamaria, she won’t mind. They may think the same about me, I don’t know but I am not that damned nice though, ya know?” She laughed. “Yeah, polite is one thing but if you betray me, the credits roll on our relationship.”
Do you know anyone like this? Someone who people believe will put up with whatever and overlook their bullshit?
I know a lot of people like this. In fact most everyone I know is like this and I can tell you if you’re dealing with a person of integrity and you don’t have integrity, they’re definitely going to notice. They are also definitely going to care as well, even if they’re polite about it
. Do you think, denamaria said, “Look you bitches…” I am sure she just excused herself which is exactly what I’d have done.
Do Libra types invite betrayal? How about sturdy Capricorns? What characteristics lead someone to believe a person will ignore or overlook their betrayal?