“Nothing is going on here,” I told satori. “I’m just waiting to see what everyone else is going to do.” She laughed. “Yeah, being a mutable codependent, this is what I do. I wait for all these Fixed people to fill me in on their schedule and then I adapt to it.”
This is my life. Right now, I’m waiting to see if my husband might make it home tonight. If so, I’m making steak fingers. If not, I’m freezing the meat.
I am also waiting on my son, who is having a friend over tonight, to see what they want to eat and how late the friend might be staying (or staying over). I may need to drive him home.
I also waiting on two tile / remodel guys. Not sure if one or both of them might come by to tonight to look at the house.
It’s a weird way to live, eady to morph at any time. If someone pings me right now and says they need a consult, I’ll be on the phone within ten minutes, or even on skype, talking to someone on the other side of the world.
Are you mostly Mutable, Cardinal or Fixed?