Dear Elsa, My fiance recently broke off our engagement after cheating on me!! Things couldn’t have been better for the two years we were together. Then on the night of his birthday, he went out with his two single friends and made some … Read More…
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Hi Elsa, I’ve never been a parent before, but now I’m step-dad to two boys – five and ten years old. I am struggling with authority issues, especially with the older one. Any advice? Signed, New on the Job Dear … Read More…
Dear Elsa, I’m a late bloomer, and have been looking for a fulfilling career. I’ve finally found a job that can support me but still lets me be the high-energy butterfly that I am. I’m training to become a a … Read More…
Hi Elsa, My boyfriend of seven years was recently diagnosed with a mental illness. It wasn’t completely unexpected, but now I’m looking for some kind of reassurance. He is deliberately changing many of his thought patterns as part of his … Read More…
Hi Elsa, I’ve been through two disastrous marriages, and I’m wondering what fate has in store for me now. As I reflect on the past 35 years, I see a pattern of allowing myself to be a doormat when it … Read More…
Hi Elsa, I seem to attract emotional cripples who balk when I won’t put up with their shabby behavior. I was content to have fantasy-riddled correspondences with foreign penpals. But then I met T. We clicked instantly. We discovered a … Read More…
Hi Elsa, I am a single woman at midlife. I am seriously starting to wonder if I will ever find and marry my life companion. I have built for myself a secure and pleasant life. I enjoy my work, hobbies … Read More…