Character Assassination: Who Does It and How Do You Deal With It?

character-assasination.jpgSpeaking of popularity as we have over the last week, there are two people in my life who have recently had their character assassinated in their communities. I guess you might say these two are “darkly popular” and I had conversations with both of them this week from opposite sides of the issue.

I asked one of them what kind of person does this to another? What is going on inside someone who lies about a series of events to devastate another person’s reputation with malice?

A few days later the other person asked me, “How do you deal with it when someone tells someone else things that are so bad the other person wants nothing to do with you? How do you deal with the emotion of that?” I told her my method but what is yours if you have one?

Say you break up with someone and they run around the town with a bunch of stories about you that are remote from the truth. And for whatever reason, maybe they get the jump on you or maybe you are not around to defend yourself or maybe they are just stupendously convincing, the people take on the distorted reality and you become the designated absolute shit head. What do you do? How do you deal with the emotion?

Have you ever had your character assassinated? Have you ever strung someone else up? What are the astrological correlations? Who is most likely to victim and who most likely to be perp?

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  1. I haven’t that I know of. Oddly enough I have sun pluto conjunct midheaven. I don’t put too much stock in my reputation either way. And I also make it a point to use my instincts regarding peoples character as opposed to gossip. Sometimes gossip is right though.

        • A person can also have a reputation they didn’t earn.

          This is just what I learned, when I was 15. See for yourself. So if I heard someone was a hothead, I would keep that in mind but I would be not be expecting them to go off. I would be waiting to see if they went off. And I’d set the odds at about 50/50…probably lower. Because people just aren’t that reliable and they have their own bias.

          It’s the same in astrology. People have one experience with one person and tag an aspect and call it to blame. Life is a lot bigger than small minds and/or opinions
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