Ashton Kutcher has a lovely Venus/Moon/Sun conjunction in Aquarius, part of a grand trine involving Jupiter and Pluto. Plus, he has Mercury in Aquarius! What an egghead! I’ve noticed with people with grand trines in air tend to live in their brains. They are not emotional at all; they “logic” their emotions, bringing their feelings up to their head and process that way. He has two planets in water, one of which is Mars in Cancer. That’s good; he’s very protective of his family. He also has Uranus is in Scorpio, squaring his Sun. So he’s got the six-gun I’ve written about in another article, here – Stubborn Uranus Squares. Once he’s decided on a cause, nothing can stop him, which is perfectly exemplified by his humanitarian work regarding the sexual exploitation (Uranus in Scorpio!) of children. His Aquarius stellium is opposed by Saturn in the 4th house. His home life grounds him.
Mila Kunis has a good deal of earth, so potentially, she might help keep him grounded. However, she’s also got a Uranus square… to her Venus. So this shows that relationships can be a source of friction for her. She has only one planet in water, and that’s the Moon. And other than a sextile to Venus, that Moon is unaspected.
To get a little more info on the Scorp Moon, I look to its rulers. Pluto and Mars are co-rulers of Scorpio, and in her chart, Mars is at 0 Leo, a very critical degree, and a very self-important one. But it’s squared by both Pluto and Saturn…. she’s got a tight lid on herself. A pickle jar that you’d have to go to extreme measures to open. She could also try to control *others* with that kind of configuration, because what we repress in ourselves, we are bound to inflict upon others.
Ashton’s Moon is constantly saying to Mila’s Moon: What did I do? What’s the big deal? Why are you so mad?
Mila’s Moon can seethe. Ashton’s Moon just wants everyone to get along. In order to get along with Mila, Ashton needs to know what her bottom line rules are, and be with the program. Her Moon forms an apex of a t-square… her Mars opposes his Mercury and t-squares her Moon. They argue. Bet on it. Not that everyone doesn’t argue, but to a Scorpio Moon, the arguments are deeply felt and incredibly important. To an Aquarius Moon, arguments are … discussions. One of the finest things an Aquarius Moon man once said to me is “don’t EVER give me an ultimatum. Tell me what you want, and let me go for a walk to think about it.” Invariably, on that walk, he’d come to see your side of an issue. But back him into a corner and all you get is cold detachment. This would absolutely enrage a 0 degree Leo Mars, and a Scorpio Moon. HOW DARE YOU not take this seriously?? Do you have to look at your phone every time we talk???
Hopefully after two kids and many years of marriage under their belt, Mila has learned that it’s best to save her deep, profound emotions for her girlfriends, and Ashton has learned that if gives her absolute undivided attention during the times she needs to express herself, the issues do not escalate. Now that I think about it, the characters they played on “That 70’s Show” pretty well expressed their true personalities! Ashton was the cut-up (although on the show he played a dummy, and in real life the man is a genius) and Mila played the serious, controlling, don’t-take-me-for-granted girl.
There’s lots of other good stuff in the chart between these two… what do you see?