I am a Aries in a relationship with a Sagittarius man. I have been in this relationship for about 2 years and he has not yet said, “I love you”. Am I expecting too much too soon? He helps me financially and he spends what time he can with me. He has 2 two jobs. We work together on one of the jobs, he works approximately 12 to 16 hours a day.
I just want to know if am I wasting my time or should I continue to invest? If I have a emotional problem and bring it to his attention, he tries to make adjustments so to compromise with me. Sometimes I am just not sure where I stand with him; his actions makes me feel special and loved, but then sometimes when he is distant, I feel he may be involved with some one else or no longer interested.
Can you please give me some advice?
Two years is a significant amount of time to spend with someone and it sounds to me as if your man is keeping his distance. You say that you wonder if he is involved elsewhere… which makes me wonder if he involved elsewhere either permanently or intermittently.
In whatever case, it seems he does want to keep his options open because although it sounds as if he treats you well, he is maintaining the relationship without commitment. And while it seems clear he values you to an extent, it is also clear that you are not his priority or you would have more answers and less questions.
Now I don’t know how much money he has and how much money he gives, but perhaps this is a relationship of convenience for him and you are basically being paid not to ask questions. I am not going to judge that because I could care less but if you are wondering if this relationship is leading to something like marriage or babies or something traditional like that, my guess would be no. But I don’t know this!
If you want answers to questions like this, you are going to have to ask the man directly and with Sun and Mercury in Aries – never mind a Scorpio Moon – I am surprised you have not already. It leads me to think you like the cash and perhaps the sex and with am emphasis on Aquarius in your chart as well, the independence has got to appeal as well.
I think you can take this from here.