Recently I worked with a gal who was really personable. This is nice feature to have.
My husband is personable but it’s not at all important to him to have friends. If you pushed him, he’d say he prefers to not have friends!
Some people are born with charisma. (see Chiron – You Can’t Buy Charisma) They just have it. People like them wherever they go.
Other people don’t have this quality. If they want to be liked, they’ve got to work at it. They have to develop themselves.
It’s like being natural public speaker as opposed to being someone like me who would struggle through a speech, unless I really trained myself.
How important is it to you that you be personable? Do you care if people like you, or not so much? Have you ever done anything to become more personable? What the astrology?