With Venus square Neptune, I have obscured extremely important information from my partner(s) at various times in my life. Denial is part and parcel of this behavior and occurs in any number of ways.
I have finally learned not to do this. It may be because I am with a man who truly loves me, and can handle the truth and deal with reality, but I don’t know. I think if I were out there being rejected and rejected and rejected, I might go right back to my old tricks because I don’t like to be alone.
In my case this can be as innocuous as playing dumb or it can be a lot more deceitful, like leaving out huge chunks of information I fear might get me rejected but that a person you’re dating seriously would want to know.
I did not marry my husband when we were young because I was obscuring things. It was safer for me to tell him I would not marry him because “Tucson is an Estes home town”, (exact quote) then to tell him what the problem was. I could not even imagine dropping the veil at that time, it was unthinkable.
I bring this up because I think it’s pretty common and no one talks about it of course.
Are you hiding something critical from your partner? If so, why?