Just met an Aquarian guy. We not exactly dating we chatting, do our thing sometimes. I think he is sweet and feel very bad every time he act distant, he never said I love you just call me ‘my love’ only when he is drunk and that would be it. I sometimes say things and he gets upset and just keep quiet and decides not to respond to my emails.
I hate to be the one to always apologize when I am not the one upset. Sometimes he would lie about coming to see me, and don’t come when I call and ask he would claim he was busy, but couldn’t bother to pick up the phone and tell me.
Is it normal for a woman to apologize first every time there is a problem? Because if I don’t I am afraid he would leave it like that until maybe it runs dry. He is unpredictable and I find it very difficult sometimes to get along with his moods, most of the time I manage to get him on track but its tiring and confusing as you will never know how he will respond today. He is moody and tempered very easily, and it hurts me instead.
He is currently quiet again, he is not responding to my emails I don’t know what to do and it’s killing me. Should I keep quiet he’ll come around maybe or should I try find out what might be the problem like usual.
I don’t feel like committing to him I want things to be the way they are. But again I want to keep the sparkling between us, yet I am afraid I might end up falling for him.
Please help me I am confused.
Twelfth House Pisces Moon
You have a lot of planets in Libra which makes you a natural peacemaker. It also indicates a strong desire to be partnered although you don’t necessarily want someone on top you 24 hours a day.
Besides this, you have a twelfth house Pisces Moon which needs significant time alone to throw off the energy you absorb so readily so in this way your Aquarian man’s habits serve you.
As to your specific question: no it is not normal for the woman to apologize but it is normal for the Libra to apologize. Do I make sense? This is your nature and while it may or may not be fair, his nature is not like yours.
His nature as an Aquarian is to be exactly as you describe him… detached and unpredictable. So what this leaves you to decide (something difficult for Libra) is if you can stand it. Because you are not apt to be able to alter this situation much and I would add one more thing:
The confusion and fatigue you feel is also shown in your chart (the Pisces Moon again) which means you will suffer this with or without him in one form or the other. You will see your energy deplete, that is. So one way you might handle this is to let him go when he goes… forget about controlling him and use the time when he’s out of pocket to refresh and replenish yourself.