Astrologer, CF Perez, made an interesting statement about inequity in relationships.
She said, when one person in a relationship gave far more than the other, the person who was indebted, filled in with anger. Such a simple and interesting observation. I think she may be correct.
For example, take the alcoholic / codependent relationship. The codependent gives and gives and does the alcoholic appreciate it? Hell no! The alcoholic grows to loathe the person doing the caretaking. The more they receive (that they will never be able to reciprocate) the angrier they get.
The more you give, the more they hate you? This is a compelling argument against giving too much.
Have you ever been part of a relationship out of whack like this? How did it wind up?