What an honest thing to ask. What a common thing to wonder. I answered her…
“I would not say you are *special* to him on this day. It sounds as if you are becoming special to him. This is a cautious man. So if you stick with this, you’ll become special, most likely. If you bail, then you bail…”
The man is a Scorpio with a Capricorn moon. Some people – I’m one of them, take their time. Even if I hit it off with someone initially, we are not going to be “best friends”. There is a chance we become permanent friends though.
I’m not saying this is desireable. To many it’s heavy and not desirable at all. But if you’re dealing with a deep-pool kind of person, it’s going to be a slow process getting to know them.
What’s nice is they will be getting to know you as well. For real! It’s the opposite of a person who loves you today and betrays you tomorrow. Or simply finds a shinier friend to reflect upon them.
What do you know about this kind of process?