Conflicted About Committing

Hi Elsa,

My life is going perfectly, and yet I’m not happy! Or rather, I’m a worried, anxious mess. I recently got engaged, to a wonderful man who I’m absolutely head over heels in love with. My daughter is a delightful, intelligent, loving little girl. We just bought a beautiful house in a nice neighborhood and I just got a new job with a really cool non-profit.

But I just can’t seem to feel better. It’s like I’ve struggled so long to get to where I am – I mean, really fought HARD to achieve this – and now I can’t relax at all. It all seems so precarious. And I’m normally a fairly happy-go-lucky person.

Am I crazy? Am I not astrologically cut out for comfort? I’ve actually had dreams of having an affair, and I would NEVER have an affair! My guy is my best friend. I’ve also been looking at houses online, even though I adore our house. It’s like I’m still questioning all of these choices.

What the hell is wrong with me right now?

Signed,
Uncomfortably Engaged

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Love Artist – Venus In Leo Square Neptune

Hi Elsa,

Lately I have been wondering if there’s something about me that makes me blind to the glaring, glaring danger signs of the people I date. The last guy I was in a relationship with, we dated for a year until I found out he had been cheating on me and I broke up with him. Then almost as soon as I realized he was a dishonest person, all of these other things rose up in my mind, things I had known all along but excused-like his lack of honor, cowardice, selfishness, arrogance, etc.-and made it very clear that I had been making straw into gold all along.

I am afraid that I will keep choosing guys who are completely wrong for me. I don’t want to keep being blind to these faults and flaws and make excuses for them. Do you have any insight as to why I do this, and what I can do about it to stop this?
Blinded by love

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