From 2008 – amusing.
Awhile back I posted this: You’re Divorced And Getting Remarried… What About Your Old Wedding Ring? to ask people what they did with there old wedding ring. 33 people responded, many to say they threw their rings away (typically into a body of water) and I have to say I didn’t believe you.
Continue reading Scorpio, the 8th House and Goods Of The Dead – Pawn Shops And The Wedding Ring From A Failed Marriage

The chart of the day of a wedding is interesting on a number of levels.  This gal is getting married on a day when the aspects reflect a deep, lasting commitment.  Something in line with a sacrament rather than an experiment or drive-though wedding in Las Vegas. I wrote this:

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I was just looking at potential wedding charts in May 2011 for a client and these charts are wicked.  In spite of that, you know that legions of people are going marry in this time frame.

While these will be harsh unions I don’t necessarily think people should not go ahead with their plans. Obviously not all marriages are idyllic but I can’t say enough about the value of knowing what you’re getting into, especially in this time frame where Saturn in Libra opposes a huge stellium in Aries.

I do like the drama of it all. You throw the dice and there you have it… sealed with a kiss.

When those in the public eye, especially those who like to make fashion statements get married, they take great care in choosing their gowns. We can see the person in the gown has taken a great deal of time choosing their look for the day that they marry.

I find that the earth signs take their wedding dresses very seriously. Air signs tend to entertain with their choices while choosing very personal dresses, Fire signs go for the flash often enough and Water signs are emotionally connected with their dress and most likely, with the exception of a Taurus, to wear a vintage style. I also find that the rules I’ve set up for dressing play a huge role in how a woman appears on her wedding day.

Where your Venus is has a great deal to do with your wedding dress choice and men like dresses that reflect where their Mars is placed. Let’s start with a Libra:

Continue reading Astrology, Weddings, Celebrities and Fashion Statements by Annalisa

Wedding control 101!!! Confessions Of A Control Freak

I am the astrologer that Bee of Weddingbee.com is talking about here and this is my side of the story:

My friend who is now her husband called me and told me he was meeting a girl and it was not a date.
I argued with him he was going on a date because I could hear it in his voice and he argued that he was not going on a date. Like this:

“It’s a date.”
“No, I’m just meeting her.”
‘You’re going on a date.”
“I am NOT going on a date.”
“Well she is going on a date and so are you just as soon as you catch on, because this is a date.”
Continue reading A Couple Who Met On The Harmonic Concordance of 2003… Astrology And A Hot Wedding

We’ve pretty much decided to get married in Tombstone as we have history there. Besides way more than our share of hell raising, it was in Tombstone that we dressed up as as soldier and his wife when we were 17 and 19 years old to take the now infamous photo… seeing as the soldier is wearing a YANKEE uniform.

Speaking of hell raising, the solider would like to get married during Helldorado Days and then be in the parade with our own float.

I think all this a a good idea for two irreverent Mars-y types although I am (still) not allowed to dress as a Saloon Girl, he’s got his Saturn on me fer sure.

“It says here you can get married in a bordello,” I said brightly. “Wanna do that?”

No response.

::snicker::

The possibility of the soldier and I having a battle on our wedding day came up on the comments in the blog Auspicious Day For A Wedding

“I don’t want to fight on our wedding day,” I said.

“I think it’s in your DNA,” he answered simply.

I’d have denied it but hey…

One of the regular readers here is getting (got) married tonight – Congrats Susie! We got in a discussion about the wedding chart on Astrology Today – Hall Of Mirrors and then the soldier informs me he believes we can/ should marry November or December 2009.

He has his reasons. He’s done his calculations and so forth and this is what he’s come up with. He briefly explained his reasoning. He’d have explained it exhaustively but he knows I could care less. “So what do you think?” he asked. “November or December 2009.”

“I don’t know. I just can’t believe you want to get married in freezing December. It’s not romantic, it’s a cold day.”

He blushed. “Well, P, I don’t know. I’m just saying I think that’s the soonest we can do it,” he waved his hand still blushing. “Look on your heavens and see if that’s a good time,” he said before beatin’ feet out of the room.

If any of you electional astrology types happen to stumble on a good day to get married, post Nov 2009… lemme know – Thanks.

For all the divorcees out there, I have a couple of questions:

What did you do with your wedding ring when you divorced? If you initially kept your ring, do you still have it? Does it have feelings attached? Do you future plans for it?

If you are remarried, does your current spouse know you have the previous ring and just in general, do you think any of this is significant?

In other words, do these inanimate objects that are symbols have energy? If they do, how should it be handled?

For the record, I am asking this because my Pisces sister had a ritual around ridding herself of old wedding rings. I have no such ritual but am wondering if I should.

Anyone?

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