I was surprised when I saw, HQ had posted about victimhood on the boards. It made me recall a conversation we had years ago when he told me I wasn’t a victim. This had dawned on him at the time and as always, I didn’t know what the hell he was talking about. I’d never thought about such a thing and talking to HQ challenged me back then, it still does.

It’s now a number of years later (eight?) and then up pops this thread. I was moved by it. I was stirred because it reaches back further than you might imagine. More than eight years, that’s for sure.

Continue reading On Victimhood: “I’m Not A What?”

Selkie writes on the Triple Pisces blog, regarding the stereotypes of the various signs…

“…lots of Scorpios are harsh people who actually greatly enjoy judging others (even people they’ve never even met or talked to); insist on playing seemingly inexplicable games with people for years on end; take pleasure in seeing “certain” (or “certain sorts of”) people punished, and in freezing out the “unworthy,” and who are stubborn to the point of harming both themselves and others – even the people closest to them.”

The comment is out of context so check the rest if it offends you but I wanted to address the phenomena of Scorpio freezing people out because it definitely happens and it’s never been addressed on this blog.
Continue reading Why Does Scorpio Freeze You Out, Or Amputate A Relationship? Remarks On Their Motivation…

“Yes, if I lose another friend ultimately you will be blamed. Yep. Not at first. At first they will be mad at me but then they’ll think about it. Yeah, I liked that Elsa and I had not problems getting along with her until HEEEEEEEEEEE came around! Heeee ruined her!”

The soldier laughed and I smirked.

“Yeah, it’s just human nature. It’s not their fault so it’s got to be mine but eventually I get thrown up… I get elevated somehow and they look for someone or something to blame. But in this case, they won’t be looking very long or very hard because you’re standing right here,” I said with a wink. (swearing below the break)
Continue reading Victims And Their Victims aka The People They Blame: Er… Neptune, Pluto – The Usual Suspects

The soldier burped loudly behind me.

“Sorry,” he said.

I did not react.

“Dora made me do it,” he added.

He’s got the bonus here of being her victim.

The Moon in Leo is square debilitated Venus in Scorpio and the collective pretty much has PMS across the board.Neptune is involved so no one knows who to blame, however most are certain they are the victim rather than the perpetrator even though they may be sorely mistaken.

Not that you should try to un-confuse anyone because it would be as fruitful as arguing with a drunk.It occurs to me I should make a drunken 1 minute video of debauchery today. That would suit this configuration. However I can’t (poor me / victim) because my son is home on Christmas break so you’ll all be spared. Er… see (Leo) my endless compassion (Neptune)?

Ha ha ha