What would you do if you noticed a friend had pulled away? Would you question them? Try to pull them back in? Or would you let them be, maintaining the friendship within the new frame they’d established?
Where is your Venus and how is it aspected?
Expressing Your Aesthetic
“Listen with your eyes and sing everything you see… Red and yellow and pink and green, purple and orange and blue, you can sing a rainbow, sing a rainbow, sing a rainbow too.”
–Arthur Hamilton, “I Can Sing a Rainbow”
Our individual aesthetic, our personal concept of what we find pleasing and beautiful, is represented in the chart by the position and aspects of Venus. How we express our aesthetic can be seen through Mars (how we act), Mercury (how we sense and communicate), the ascendant (Mars-ruled, expressed in our body and affect) and the descendant (Venus-ruled, what we find attractive when expressed in others). Though the 5th house is sun-ruled it shows our creativity and how we express who we are. Creativity draws heavily on the natal aesthetic. The houses where your sun and Venus reside flavor this area as well.
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1 Minute Astrology – Venus, Love and Money: What’s Your Currency?
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There is tremendous focus on Venus and relationships for the rest of the month. I’ve decided to teach a class specific to love, in October. It’s going to be a lively affair! This is from 2007. Who attracts what, when and why? Check Venus in the horoscope…
Accidental Research Regarding A Man and His Mars
1 Minute Astrology – How To Attract Love And The Beauty Ideal
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Venus Rules The 7th House
“We are no longer puppets being manipulated by outside powerful forces: we become the powerful force ourselves.”
–Leo Buscaglia
Your Venus shows what you like, what you are attracted to aesthetically. Venus rules the 7th house. If you have planets in the 7th house you will tend to like those things about yourself that those planets signify. Accordingly, when others have planets that fall in your 7th house you will tend to like those aspects about them that those planets represent.
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Decorating And Venus
“Decorate your home. It gives the illusion that your life is more interesting than it really is.”
–Charles M. Schulz
Venus, in the simplest of terms, is what you find aesthetically pleasing. We tend to acquire and surround ourselves with things we like. The surroundings we create tend to mirror aspects of our Venus. My Venus is in Aries in the 8th house. I like reds, both intense and dark, simple themes and family heirlooms (inherited, 8th house). The art I display can be broadly categorized in three veins: Asian calligraphy (simple, Aries), landscapes (simple, Aries), and old, framed pictures of dead ancestors (inheritance, 8th house). There is also the sub-category of landscape photographs shot by dead ancestors.
How do you decorate? Where is your Venus?
Valentine’s Day Question: What Rules Candy? by Satori
“Candy girl, you are my world, you’re everything, you’re everything, you’re everything to me!”
–New Edition
Nobody asked me this question. It popped into my head a few minutes ago. I was trying to figure out whether it was totally crass to drop hints or email my man a coupon. It’s been creeping into my head ever since I saw one at the Walgreen’s. I desperately want a Whitman’s Sampler for Valentine’s Day. I think it’s less about wanting something than it is about nostalgia. I’ve been feeling very nostalgic for the 70′s and my childhood.
I’d say Venus probably rules candy. As far a Venus-ruled sign goes, I’d probably assign candy to Taurus rather than Libra. Libra is sweet but airy. Libra snacks on rainbowy unicorn air-trails, right? Taurus is earthy, and foody. I’m thinking Taurus. Or we could split it: Libra gets the pretty candy (swedish fish, taffy, marshmallows) and Taurus gets chocolates.
Do you like candy? Do you have candy? Can I have some?
Distinguishing “Need” From “Like”: The Moon Vs. Venus by Satori
“My husband said he needed more space. So I locked him outside.”
–Roseanne Barr
Something Sam said on my earlier post, Moon Square Venus, prompted me to make a distinction between moon and Venus energies. What you want can be divided into two categories, like and need. The moon placement signifies your nature in terms of need. What you need is what satisfies. Venus placement speaks of what you like, what is aesthetically pleasing. As my moon squares my Venus, what I need does not necessarily appeal to me in terms of what I like. What I like is not necessarily emotionally satisfying.
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The female scorpion invites the male to her with the right vibes. Literally, she puts out oscillations that the male can detect with his tiny sensory hairs.
Reminds me of something a Scorpio once said to me as we locked eyes:
“It’s all about a feeling.”
“What is?”
“Everything.”
Continue reading Venus in Scorpio Love by Nota
Turning Venus Inward by Satori
“But I always like to play ugly people who think they’re pretty. My characters always like themselves.”
–Amy Sedaris
Venus is our esthetic, what we value, what we like. Its position can be evaluated purely on its own, by sign or house, but the aspects it makes also tell a tale. Venus tells us what we like in general. That’s simple enough to evaluate. I’ve become used to talking about aspects in terms of the external, an observable effect, because I’m looking in from the outside.
Here’s an interesting exercise: take a look at the aspects your Venus makes to your personal planets. Are they harmonious or challenging? With your Mars, do you like your energy, how you act, how you go about getting what you want? Does it interact with Mercury, how you think and communicate? What about your Moon, what you need and feel? What is the relationship between Venus and your ascendant or Sun, how you appear to others, your personality?
What I’m asking is pretty personal. Do you like yourself? Do you like how you act, think, ARE?
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