From 2007 – t-carat writes in regards to the soldier’s asserting that men act differently when women are around as opposed to when they are by themselves:

“They don’t want to get into a crummy fort, they want to get into where the decisions that affect the world are made and where the money is.

If a man can’t work and be himself where women are he’s been living in a cave for the last 2-3 decades…”

Continue reading What is Primal Between Men and Women vs What Might Evolve?

From 2008: “I wrote on my blog that I was a man’s woman,” I told the soldier.

“You’re a woman’s woman,” he said.

“You think?” I said.  I think I am a woman’s woman too. I help women all day long never mind I sued a man for sexual harassment when I was 17 years old when the concept of sexual harassment was on the absolute fringe of society. What’s that if not a woman’s woman?

“P, you’re a woman / woman. You’re just a woman all the way around.”

I figured he meant, women are nurturing. They are caretakers. We may be able to do all kinds of other things but at the heart of it, there is estrogen in the equation and I don’t think it can be denied.

Continue reading Men vs Women – How Well Do You Get Along With The Opposite Sex? POLL

“P, some of this women aren’t telling you the whole story. Some women… I’m telling you if you’re not going to screw them, you’re not going to screw anyone.”

“I know. I know that, I know what you mean.”

“Yeah, they get pissed and get it all wrong… go tell everyone in the world a bunch of shit about you, none of it is true. I mean they call your sister, your mother, your friends, your boss, your cousins… they’ll even tell your dog about you if they happens to speak English.”

I snorted.

This is true of course but why? Why is there a saying, “Hell have no fury like a woman scorned…” but no equivalent saying regarding men?

There is a bit of a dilemma with the Sun and Mercury in Libra and ruler Venus and Mars in Scorpio. On the Libra side a person wants to act (Sun) pleasantly and think pleasant thoughts (Mercury) but what does Scorpio care about pleasantries? Let’s get to the meat, eh?

Now the Moon moves into Aquarius offering support to the Sun and Mercury on fellow air sign, Libra but what does Scorpio care about that?

Mars in Scorpio is one hell of sharp knife and if you try to deny it you will probably have experiences like I have over the last couple days. I’m going along all pleasant-like and next thing you know I’m spewing venom!

Er… I know I am the only one who acts likes this. ::winks::

From the comments Voice Of Mars (With A Scorpio Moon) On Women, I wrote:

“He means the women deliver more pain then they realize… the men keep a straight / poker face.”

dukkha asked

“…is the straight poker face a ‘male’ thing or a ‘scorpio moon’ thing?”

dukkha, it’s moon for sure, but I think this may apply to men in general in large part. You just don’t see many men don’t see many men crying (overtly) about a women who is going or gone. The soldier talks about this a lot, he has definitely seen his share of men broken up over women men and when I hear these stories I get the distinct idea the women have no idea they have delivered such a punch.

Continue reading Venus vs Mars: How Men And Women React To The Loss Of Love Relationship

“Well he likes us,” I told the soldier regarding Vidroid. “He likes being around us, I think it is because we are both inexhaustible. There is always more you can glean from either one of us.”

“That’s probably true.”

“I think it is and I think he’s figured this out so he wants to spend as much time with us as he can. He wants to learn everything he can. Like how to get a woman, and how to keep one.”

“Well you better teach him how to get one because I have no idea. I have never been able to figure out how these guys do it. The only time I have ever got a women it was because circumstances through us together and kept us there long enough for pheromones to start working.”
Continue reading Bridging The Gap: Men And Women (Venus And Mars) Working As A Team

Regarding Attraction and Propulsion, Foxxy writes:

“… No matter how happy attracted or satisfied I am when I need to go I am propelled. Sometimes its like being shot from a cannon.

Bootling in your case Elsa, right? The soldier’s mud hole is great and all, but his acknowledgment of your (drive) need to bootle is one of this things that makes the relationship work . .”
Continue reading Astrology and Attraction vs Propulsion: Does Venus Trump Mars?

Last night, Vid, the soldier and I were messing around. I took a stand against the soldier and Vid took his side. I looked at him mockingly. “Siding against your old mom now, are you? You’re on his side?”

“Yeah I’m with him,” he said.

“Great! My own son sides against me…”

He stared and held firm.

“Nah… it’s okay, Vid. I am glad you are on his side.”

“Well, Mom, we’re boys. We are both boys so I am on his side. I was the only boy around here for a long time but now it’s your turn to be the only girl. Your turn to suffer and feel the pain.”

I stared at him completely flabbergasted. “Suffer and feel the pain? Suffer? Did you say, suffer and feel pain?”

“Yep. Yep, that’s right.”

I walked off muttering and shaking my head. There has apparently been a revolution and P is just finding out about it. Boys rule, did ya hear?

But the main thing I am getting loud and clear is there are things boys want and needs the moms just can’t deliver and I am pretty sure Pluto’s transit through Capricorn is going to make this painfully apparent.

Last weekend I went the liquor store for some wine and came home with the report.

“Yeah there was this guy in there and he made all these remarks about my skirt. He liked my skirt, the color of it. It was strange he was all over the thing. Man, look at that green. I’ve never seen a skirt like that.”

“I bet,” the soldier said.
Continue reading Men, Women, Venus And Mars In Nature

“I haven’t got much up there today,” I said meaning my blog.  ”But what is up there has people talking.”

“What is it?”

“The sissification of men. Women feminizing men.”

“What are they saying?”

“Various things. Deny it or some of them want balance – stuff like that.”

“I am against balance. I think men should be men and women, women and they balance each other.”

“I know that.”

“Yeah, it’s like you have two poles. One is positive, one negative and together you get electricity.  This idea that everyone is contained. Each person has everything…”

“Yeah, I know. There is no flow. You and I flow like crazy.”

“Yeah we do.”

pictured – Venus and Mars by Sidney Harold Meteyard. Oil on canvas