Okay here’s a problem for y’all. I’ve got a gal trying to break a long-standing pattern of opting to go with Danger Boy. You know the type. He’s got an edge, might be moody, definitely non-committal, intermittently withholding, secretive, etc.
Continue reading Open Question: Please Help Commitment Phobic, Danger Seeking Woman Learn To Turn Away From Lousy Men

The Uranus Pluto transit hits the charts of my immediate family, hard. One way or the other, we’re all prepared and that’s good because at this point, the process has begun.

The recent changes around here have prompted me to dialogue with various people about things I never thought I’d speak to them about. I’m talking about my husband quite a bit, where he’s usually on the periphery.  Specifically, I’ve been called to  outline some of his idiosyncrasies, or his unconventional thinking and I realize in this process, how glad and grateful I am that he is the way he is.

Continue reading Life Changes, Love And Uranus In The 7th House Or Aspecting Venus

From 2007: My husband called, this was before we married.

“I was watching the Godfather last night and it came to the part when Micheal was in Italy and he sees Appolonia for the first time. They see each other. They just look at each other and he has to wipe the sweat from his forehead just from seeing her.”

Continue reading Venus in Aspect To Uranus – Love At First Sight

epiphany: 3 a (1) : a usually sudden manifestation or perception of the essential nature or meaning of something (2) : an intuitive grasp of reality through something (as an event) usually simple and striking (3) : an illuminating discovery, realization, or disclosure b : a revealing scene or moment

This is related to Old and Diseased and also to Are You Psychic About Your Life?

Continue reading Epiphany: Faith Meets Practicality And Their Eyes Lock

With Venus about to conjunct Uranus on it’s way to oppose Saturn and square Pluto, I am realizing I very likely lost a friend. I hate to say it because we’ve been talking for a number of years, maybe 6 or more but I think our last conversation did us in.  When I hung up I thought, jeez, and I’ve not been able to think anything but since. It’s like we just can’t go on.

This reminds me of when I had my first baby and a few weeks later my best friend has an abortion.  She just didn’t want to see me after that and this separation is along similar lines. The difference is I don’t intend to maintain this smaller circle which I think is something widely applicable which is why I am reporting this.

Continue reading Venus Conjunct Uranus: Losing A Friend

This is in response to Dr. Z – The Zodiac Master on Love and Rot:

I remember the day the soldier’s son realized I loved his father as-is. I’d been writing him for months and months and months and finally said something that indicated acceptance of the more difficult or challenging aspects of his nature.
Continue reading Real Change In Relationship (Saturn Opposite Uranus)

The soldier referred to me today as, “Elsa P, the un-catch-able catch”. He dreams of our showing up at our wedding… and it not going off due my cold feet. This is a perfect expression of the sky right now by the way. Venus is conjunct Uranus in Pisces… I don’t know how you get more “runaway bride” then that and it’s in aspect to Saturn… that would be the fear, or the self control that prevents acting on the impulse to escape.

I really do think we are going to marry but who knows how or when. We seem to have so little to say about what happens in our lives. This is both of us, I mean. For example when I had a baby, never in a million years did I expect it to turn out the way it has and I surely never thought I’d see the soldier again – I had counted him dead for 20 years at least!
Continue reading Lives: Some Are More Predictable Then Others… Plus Destiny, Commitment-Phobia, Independence And Those Rotten Special Forces Soldiers Who Trick You All The Time

In another manifestation of Venus Uranus (detached and odd) and Venus Neptune (ignore)… this conversation was from some months ago:

“You realize that virtually every woman you have ever slept with reads my blog don’t you? What do you think about that?” I asked the soldier. “I think it’s remarkable. They’ll all found you. All of them.”

“I don’t know what to think of it,” he said. “I don’t know why they’d be interested, no one has ever really liked me but you.”

I shrugged and looked at him. I am pretty sure the look on my face wanted to hold him responsible for this.
Continue reading Transcending And Detaching Around (Whoever’s) Ex-Lovers Read This Blog

I got this picture (from the soldier) in my email today, he says it’s of us. On the Neptune front, it’s quite astonishing to me how his name in my email gives me a thrill… it just makes me dizzy with love but really that’s a Uranus in the 7th (I have), Venus in aspect to Uranus (he has) picture.

People who have things like this in their chart have simply got to have some oddity and for us, this is it.

There is another striking thing about the picture… I can’t really afford to get him by him, can I? We are learning this is regards to our fights.

But my main point is you read how Uranus in the 7th is prone to divorce. This is true but there are other ways it can play and you are looking at one of them.