This is from 2008, in honor of the current sky where Venus in Leo opposes Neptune and Jupiter in Aquarius which is very similar to the energy in my natal chart. The text below is from February 2009 and requires no update.

I claimed (quite correctly) that at least 40 men had proposed to me in my life and Bella asked on Venus Neptune Getting Married:

What is the astrology for that level of proposal mania?

I stated I had to dodge weddings as if they were bullets and I am reposting this because it takes on a new meaning when you have the back story.
Continue reading 1 Minute Astrology – Venus, Neptune, Love And Delusion: People Who Want To Marry You (In Droves) When They Don’t Even Like You…

Key Words for Astrology states the Venus with Neptune suffers from profound lapses of judgment at times. I have the planets in square aspect and can tell you, this is true.

It is inordinately hard to work with as there is no intention to screw up and when there is a screw up, the Venus Neptune person is typically the last to know.
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Venus in Scorpio squares Neptune in Aquarius and I’d be hard pressed to come up with an aspect that better describes a Honey Trap.

It’s almost comical the way this thing is laid out.

If you step in the thing, you can’t say you weren’t warned!

See what is coming up – Transit Watch

Venus is retrograde in Scorpio and will hit Libra next week. It will also form a square to Neptune and we’ll see people disillusioned in droves.

I have Venus square Neptune natally. There is no end to the manifestations and problems associated but if there is one thing to keep in mind when you are dealing with a square (and your life in general) it’s this: Whatever is happening in your life, YOU are most certainly involved.

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More talk on the man who can’t be pleased… here comes the body count.

“So he wakes up with this gal in his bed, never mind who it is. No matter what he does, he’s going to be up a creek and so is she. If he gets rid of her or if she just catches on to some weirdness and decides to get up and get out of there because it’s creepy, then he’ll feel bad. He knows it’s not her. There’s nothing wrong with her.”

“Yep.”

“But if she stays, which most women would because they just slept with guy, it’s game on.  Not many are going to say, you know what? This was a mistake. Whoops! Most women wouldn’t want to have this in their head so instead they stick around and try to have a relationship with him.”

Continue reading Any Woman He Meets Becomes His Terrible Burden Redux – Everyone’s a Victim In Oblivion Hell

I was talking to a pal…

“You realize no woman is going to make him happy, right? That it’s not personal to you?”

“Um…”

“You don’t realize it,” I said. “Okay, let me explain. Any woman this guy gets or decides to be with, he will not want her. Yeah, he doesn’t want you but it’s not because of anything that has to do with you. It’s not your hair, your age your weight or any other thing. It’s the way he is. This has emerged.”

“You think…”

Continue reading A Man, Impossible To Please: Any Woman He Meets Becomes His Terrible Burden

It’s been a long time since I wrote about this… or made videos but I am a woman men want to marry. I am sorry for how that sounds, but it’s a fact, product of Uranus in my 7th house and some other stuff.

This is pronounced situation as someone tried very hard to marry me when I was 12 and it’s been happening ever since to the tune of more than 25 marriage proposals in my life… I have lost count. Lately things have slowed down, simply because I don’t leave the house.  But a couple weeks ago I started taking a class in the evening and sure enough, this constellated immediately.

If this topic is interesting to you, you can read my sister on the subject here – speaking her mind. Or there is this – “People who want to marry you when they don’t even like you” but in whatever case I am having my problem again so I called my sister.

Continue reading Uranus In The 7th House + Neptune on the MC Square Venus in 7th = Imaginary, Instant Wife Of Your Dreams, Sent From God

Weight issues came up in the Colosseum. reminding me of this…

Back when I young and knew the soldier I just ate and ate and ate. Unbeknownst to me (Venus Neptune) I got enormously fat. I had no earthly idea I was overweight. I grew up starving and didn’t even know it was possible to be overweight.

Continue reading Venus Square Neptune Gets Mysteriously FAT – Jeez! Could Have Fooled Me!

“I don’t know what closure is,” my husband said. “Who gets closure? You almost never get closure. If you do get closure then fine but I’d not looking for it. I’m going to try to get some closure. The concept makes no sense. I don’t know who comes up with this stuff…”.

As a Venus Neptune type, I know exactly what he means. Nothing ever ends. There is no way to close anything because you never know when a person is going to pop up in real life, your thoughts, your dreams, in conversation, in a poem, in a song…

I’d never heard this stated so plainly and thought it was a boon so I’m sharing the bounty. It seems that looking for “closure” is aka wasting your time so I am done with that as of today.