Love And Relating To Others With Venus In Aspect To Neptune
Astrology in real life.
miatopia watched this old video, People Who Marry You When They Don’t Even Like You and started a thread to discuss the qualities of Venus/Neptune people on the boards. I have Venus in aspect to Neptune. I have written a lot about it over the years. I’ve written about the sensitivity to music and the deception which is perpetrated by the Venus Neptune person as often as they are preyed upon, though they’re usually more comfortable in the victim role then they are with owning their side of things, assuming they can see their side which often they can’t.
I’m posting because one things has never come up on this blog. It’s the way relationships (Venus) can drain (Neptune) a person who has this in their chart. People can really wipe you out and you pray to escape them.
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I think and write a lot about Venus in the 12th House because I have this placement, and the other night I was talking to a friend who described a 12th House Venus as “sexy.” I was shocked! Say what you will about Venus 12, but sexy is hardly in the Top 20 Adjectives to describe it, or so I thought. Was he privy to… secret information? It was late at night so we had to hang up but this idea stuck in my mind. What could he possibly mean? How could the house of JAIL be hot? Except maybe in B-Movies. But then maybe he finds secrecy exciting. Escape. Hidden affairs. Hidden MONEY. Or he gets off on Piscean Universal Love, Neptunian transcendence. I won’t know until we talk again.
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Composite Charts, Synastry and Personal Taste by Nota
Real Conversation
This is a continuation of my conversation with my friend with the 12th house Venus.
“Do you see it?”
“Uh-huh.”
“Isn’t that cool?”
“I guess. I’m not really into composites.”
She is having me look at yet another composite chart between her and some “dude” she met at a bar. Â the “it” she wants me to see is a grand air trine.
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Retrograde Venus plus Retrograde Mercury in the 12th House equals “Stop Texting Me!”
Real Conversation
“Look at this composite chart between me and this dude.”
“I’m not at my computer.”
“Oh… … …”
“Dammit, ok, hold on…”
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Open Question: Your Experience With Virgo Rising (Venus Neptune) In Relationship
Ask the collective
Dear Elsa,
I have Pisces on the cusp of the 7th. Would you think that with that particular arrangement that you might attract or
be attracted to dead or ghost relationships? It’s like trying to be friends with zombies or mannequins. They let go of the
closeness a long time ago, but you keep hanging on from your end trying to breathe life into it, sometimes for years. At one point you had a very close and sincere connection, you expect it to wake up and come back to life any minute – like if you let it go, that might be the end. It will just sink to the bottom of the ocean which it probably would and probably should have long ago since the other person isn’t trying to keep anything afloat.
Virgo Rising
United States
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Heads Up To Venus Neptune, Venus In Pisces, Venus In The 12th, Neptune In The 7th, Virgos And Virgo Rising:Lie Down With Dogs And Kiss Your Love Goodbye
Astrology in real life
There is another angle on that Venus Neptune painting piece I want to flesh out bit for very specific purpose. It is the mention in there of HQ’s vote of confidence in our relationship.
The soldier and I were facing a very hard road if we were going to find a way to come together. For example he had to live in a truck for a year while I had to drive all over the country in support and to maintain the relationship so really, how many people are going to do that for each other? Virtually none.
To embark on something like this we had to BELIEVE. It took copious amounts of faith and maybe you can see how important it was to have HQ state his belief if we took this hard road it would lead us to happiness. That one statement kicked me into a higher gear and what if he’d said something otherwise? What if he’d said something cock-blocking, hmm? Something to undermine. Where do you think we’d be right now?
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