From January 2008, I project my 7th house and guess what? So do you!

There were a lot of questions in the comments, I have started to address them here: Astrology Q&A – What if there is nothing in my 7th house?

This is from 2008, in honor of the current sky where Venus in Leo opposes Neptune and Jupiter in Aquarius which is very similar to the energy in my natal chart. The text below is from February 2009 and requires no update.

I claimed (quite correctly) that at least 40 men had proposed to me in my life and Bella asked on Venus Neptune Getting Married:

What is the astrology for that level of proposal mania?

I stated I had to dodge weddings as if they were bullets and I am reposting this because it takes on a new meaning when you have the back story.
Continue reading 1 Minute Astrology – Venus, Neptune, Love And Delusion: People Who Want To Marry You (In Droves) When They Don’t Even Like You…

From 2007: My husband called, this was before we married.

“I was watching the Godfather last night and it came to the part when Micheal was in Italy and he sees Appolonia for the first time. They see each other. They just look at each other and he has to wipe the sweat from his forehead just from seeing her.”

Continue reading Venus in Aspect To Uranus – Love At First Sight

It’s been a long time since I wrote about this… or made videos but I am a woman men want to marry. I am sorry for how that sounds, but it’s a fact, product of Uranus in my 7th house and some other stuff.

This is pronounced situation as someone tried very hard to marry me when I was 12 and it’s been happening ever since to the tune of more than 25 marriage proposals in my life… I have lost count. Lately things have slowed down, simply because I don’t leave the house.  But a couple weeks ago I started taking a class in the evening and sure enough, this constellated immediately.

If this topic is interesting to you, you can read my sister on the subject here – speaking her mind. Or there is this – “People who want to marry you when they don’t even like you” but in whatever case I am having my problem again so I called my sister.

Continue reading Uranus In The 7th House + Neptune on the MC Square Venus in 7th = Imaginary, Instant Wife Of Your Dreams, Sent From God

It’s no secret I have been a life-long commitment-phobic. I don’t think it’s like alcoholism -once a commitment-phobic, always a commitment-phobic but I didn’t know that until I’d actually resolved it myself. I didn’t know I’d resolved myself until it hit me last night, this is the first time in my life I have ever felt settled in a relationship.

Continue reading Saturn In Libra: Resolving Commitment-Phobia

Today I left the Asian store and as soon as I hit the parking lot, I broke into a run heading towards my car. Damn!

My husband’s son is observant. He’s a storyteller himself and maybe you can imagine my surprise when he shared some of his impressions and observations of me. He told me that at times I spontaneously ran places.
Continue reading When You Find Out You Are Odd Or… Whatever Else They May Spring On Ya

We all have notions of who we are and who other people should be even if our notion is that we do not have these kinds of notions. I always say that people project their 7th house and I am no exception.

People also project their planets in Libra and planets involved in oppositions in their chart and while I have no oppositions in my chart, I do have Libra and most notably I have Mars in the sign.

Mars likes to fight and of course I am married to a very aggressive man who LOVES to fight. See how this works? It is him not me who likes to break a person’s face with his fist. It’s not me who takes risks and accepts outrageous challenges – that is him while I am a mere girl.

Continue reading Stupified By Your Own Nature? Astrology And Projection Bay-bee! What If It’s You, Not Them? What Would We Do With No One To Blame?

‘Well now we’ve got two dates and have to choose,” I told the soldier.

“How’d that happen?”

“Well I came across one but I asked other people for advice and another astrologer emailed me with a different date.  His work was compelling.”

“It doesn’t matter, either day you can run out the church.”

I had no answer for that.

“That was a nice thing to say, I guess I’ll marry you after all,” I said.

He laughed. “I’m not holding my breath.”

“Oh come on. You know I’m going to marry you, I’m just waiting for you to give the word. You know you have criteria you think should be met so I’m just waiting for you to hit your marks.”

“Pretty good cover story, P. I always say, best have your cover story ready.”

This is what I have to avoid. I got married once, a few days later I called my old friend, Leon who I met when I was 19.

Leon and I ran together with our various partners for 10 years solid before I left the desert. We traveled all over together but we were even closer than that. We lived 90 minutes apart and were in the habit of spending every other weekend at the other person’s house. It was very tight friendship.
Continue reading 7th House Uranus… “Who Am I Really?”