The Value Of Synastry
“Getting pleasure out of the fear of others is something most of us cannot relate to– until we recall the glee of every teenager who startles a friend or sibling by jumping out of the dark.”
–Gavin de Becker, “The Gift of Fear”
Astrology has great value in the area of personal effectiveness. Everyone has a chart and in one way we can say that everyone is alike. We all have a collection of personal traits, needs and drives that can be categorized. Everyone has an ego that shapes their general outlook, a Sun. Everyone has an emotional body, the Moon, a Mercury (mind, senses), a Venus (aesthetic), a Mars (drive), an ascendant (physical presence in the world). In that way we are all more alike than we are different. We all have the same basic parts. In this way we are all alike, apples to apples. But are we all going to taste good in the same pie?
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Synastry: Relationships And The Moon by Satori
“What does not satisfy when we find it, was not the thing we were desiring.”
-C.S. Lewis
If I were to have to pick the most potent part of synastry, chart comparison, in evaluating relationships it would definitely be the Moon. The Moon by sign, element and aspect illustrates what feeds us, what satisfies. Each Moon signature provides a manual for the care and feeding of that individual. The Moon does not necessarily relate to what you think you want, but it will tell you what you need.
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1 Minute Astrology: Relationships / Synastry – An Effective Approach, Abstract But Logical
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1 Minute Astrology – Relationships / Synastry: Theory vs Reality
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1 Minute Astrology – Relationships / Synastry: The Main Techniques Work But Not Really!
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From 2008, an introduction to a series on synastry: Techniques astrologers use to judge compatibility between charts – Do they work? Theory vs fact.
Skip to part two – Theory vs Reality.
It’s strange how I get working on someone’s chart and it winds up getting broadcast. Invariably something in their chart aspects my Jupiter or vice versa.
In whatever case, I was writing to a gal about her Moon in easy aspect to another person’s Moon and told her that this gives a feeling of a blood connection. I don’t think people realize this.
Your Moon is family. When someone blends into your family…well, think about it.
And think about what it’s like when they don’t.
And think about your own Moon profile and what you are looking for on this level.
This was for a client. I was looking at a potential relationship:
“There is definite affinity and attraction here as well as long term potential provided both parties want that and are willing and interested in overcoming impediment to being with another. Notice I said “another” not “each other”. This is because the problems that exist are in each individual, rather than something that comes up when the two of them relate…”
It occurred to me this is probably a best case scenario and I’ve never seen it in this light before. Am I making sense? She’s got challenges and he’s got challenges but they do not necessarily give each other challenges. There is support and stimulation between the charts but they do not burden each other.
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1 Minute Astrology: Synastry, Love And Relationship – How Do Others Affect You?
Astrology in real life
From 2007…
Hi Elsa, I’ve been noticing lately that when in discussions with friends their Sun sign brings out my house placement. For example my Moon is in Leo in the 4th house. When talking to my Leo sun sign friends we end up always talking about our early families: our parents , our grandparents, aunts and uncles and siblings. Same with Libra ruling my 6th House. With my Libra Sun sign friends we invariably end up talking about our health issues.
What do you make of this? Can others relate? Or is this so obvious and basic astrology?
Australia
Planets in Synastry: Astrological Patterns of Relationships (The Planet Series)![]()
1 Minute Astrology – Synastry: What Happens When Love Natures Are Mismatched In Relationship?
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Relationships: Saturn, Structure And Security
“Work is love made visible. And if you cannot work with love but only with distaste, it is better that you should leave your work and sit at the gate of the temple and take alms of those who work with joy.”
–Khalil Gibran
Saturn contacts in synastry are relationship glue, attachments that hold it together. They also show restriction and pressure, restriction to the energy of the planet they aspect and pressure to learn and mature. Sometimes pressure will mold things into a more mature form and other times it crushes or pushes away. In any case it brings serious attention to whatever it touches.
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