When it comes to attracting sex there seems to be two kinds of people. Everyone has heard of the guy who lacks for dates. He just can’t seem to find a women, right up until he marries! As soon as someone puts a ring on his finger, women show up in droves and this a story as old as time. The fact some woman wants this man, makes other women want this man.

Now I am in the opposite situation. When I am partnered, men take one look at me and seem to know I am unavailable. There are exceptions but they are few and far between. For the most part, men (and women) look at me and can tell there is nothing there. There is no void to fill so they take their eyes off me and continue to scan the room for someone who is “open” or unfilled and unfulfilled.

But as soon as there is a void, LOOK OUT! My pheromones start to build up and it doesn’t take long. A week? Two weeks? Next thing I know I am crawling with prospects. Men, women, librarians of both sexes, small animals, you name it. Continue reading Astrology and Pheromones, Sex Appeal and Attractiveness: Venus and Mars In The Natal Chart

Compatibility between all the sign combos from sexualastrology.com:

On Gemini and Scorpio:

“Sex can be horrible or amazing. This union is best for a one-night stand…”

On Pisces and Leo:

“Over time, Leo will come to the conclusion that Pisces is fun for a night and that’s about it. It’s fun while it lasts. A brief affair is possible but long-term love is not so promising for Leo. Pisces could swim away in a sea of tears.”

And on Cancer and Virgo:

“Virgo is supposed to be the virgin, but Cancer will laugh when they hear this. Virgo will be highly sensual in bed and Cancer will be elated. Cancer has been looking for you, Virgo.”

Do you gravitate towards a certain sun sign?

Dear Elsa,

I was wondering if you had ever done a blog on MARS SQUARE, OPPOSITION OR INCONJUNCT PLUTO? This has been my most interesting find to date in this subject. All the men so far with this aspect are congenital adulterers and the female counterparts have been abused physically and sexually molested in their lives. I know of a few women with these apsects who go through one man after another and never learn to be faithful until late in life..and some never do.
Continue reading Open Question: Mars Square, Opposite Or Inconjunct Pluto – Sexual Obsession Or Molestation

With all the sex talk around here it seems ironic that I attract clients who are virgins but I do. I guess it makes sense I would deal in the extremes, I know I like to deal in the extremes but I just thought it would be interesting to throw a post up on the topic.

Continue reading 20, 30, 40 Year Old Virgins

Dear Unsure,

I think I can make this very simple for you, so I’m going to do that first and then I’m going to make this hard. Here is the simple solution: Leave him! Could you do it? I’m guessin’ you’d be cryin’ for this guy within a week and crying even harder six months down the road.

Continue reading Love and Money: Venus in the 8th House – Astrology-Based Advice

This has been a topic of discussion in my circle recently. What do you do if you’re an expressly loyal person and your spouse cuts you off sexually? What if they deprive you of physical contact for a month, two months, three months or a year and this becomes a way of life?

And what if you can’t leave the marriage for financial reasons, at least not in the short term without total ruin? Is there a point at where you are justified to go outside your marriage for sex?
Continue reading Open Queston: Is Cheating Ever Justified? POLL

Reader, Hiro asks:

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We just finished watching the Departed and regardless of what he says the only movies the soldier really likes is war and/or G-rated stuff.

“Why did it have to end like that?” he said.

“What do you mean?” I asked.

“Well I’d have liked to see the nice guy end up with the nice girl at least.”

“What nice girl? You mean stupid girl? You mean Miss Ineffectual who lies and manages to do nothing throughout the entire movie? What was nice about her? I wouldn’t wish her on my worst enemy,” I said.

“P!”
Continue reading Mars Mercury in The 9th House (Big Mouth) Reviews The Movie Sex In The Departed

Dear Virgo,

With Mars conjunct Pluto in the first house and a stellium in Scorpio I am sure you give off nothing but energy… energy that attracts and repels. And there isn’t a damned thing you can do about it except for gain awareness so you operate more consciously.

Now brace yourself because this next is going to sound like criticism when it is anything but. I am trying to free you here, I swear it. And the only way I know to do that is too offer insight so here goes:

Virgo has a vested interest in being seen as innocent and virginal and if you read your post up there, you will see what I mean. You’re not flirty. You’re not cheap! Why are they bothering you? You don’t want them. You didn’t do anything. Why bother the nun? Why not leave the librarian alone? But this keeps happening so it must have something to do with you and it does. Get this loud and clear:

You exude sex.

Continue reading Virgo Wonders Why Men Take Her Number But Never Call: Astrology-Based Advice

I ran across this thread on Maurice Fernandez’s message board:

Pluto in Capricorn – New Trend?

AquariusMoon posted:

“It’s just a promise I made until I get married. Where I’m at in life, the women have got to come with something else, not just the body, but the mind and the spirit. It usually trips them out, but that’s the way it’s going to be. I’m looking at the big picture,”

Lenny Kravitz tells Maxim magazine on giving up sex ~ “
Continue reading Trends In The Collective: Pluto In Capricorn = Less Sex?