“How do you make a Scorpio…”
Er… you don’t.

This is for a client who has identified patterns in how she relates men, that doom her relationships. She can break her bad patterns in relationship and so can you. Here’s how!

“He would put out a lot of energy, sexually and he was getting sick of it. He had all this energy to offer, but he was getting older and he questioned it. He wasn’t sure he wanted to put so much out. Why give so much energy when no one knows what you’re doing for them anyway?”

I was talking about a specific Scorpio man I knew but this is broadly applicable. I have seen Scorpio get to a point in their life where they just didn’t want to service people in quite the same way… if at all.

Continue reading Scorpio Men Opting Out Of Having Sex (Saturn in Scorpio)

Dear In,

No, I don’t think it is your destiny to suffer, I think it’s your destiny to heal and beyond that to help others heal. Who better for that than you? With your vast experience of suffering you are uniquely positioned, don’t you think? I do. But let me address some of these other things.

Your experience is common for survivors of abuse. You finally get yourself to a place where you have a modicum of security and this is when the shit hits the fan. Because prior to this time, you are functioning in some sort of survival mode. Functioning highly too, something you should be proud of. But now it’s time to heal.

Continue reading Astrology-Based Advice: Devastating Young Life – Sexual Abuse, Parents Dead: Sun Conjunct Saturn In Scorpio

Who feels compassion for the people no one feels compassion for? It’s Scorpio, hands down. I have no idea how I would survive without Scorpio. I don’t think I’d manage.

During the time I refer to in this video, Compassion And Sympathy: Who Garners Yours, Who Does Not And Why I was married to man with 5 planets in Scorpio. He had tremendous compassion for me. My ex, The AMF? Scorpio sun, part of a stellium in the sign, also tremendously compassionate. My friend, Ben? Scorpio Sun who sustained me singlehandedly for 2 solid years.

Continue reading Who Feels Compassion For The People No One Feels Compassion For? Scorpio!

From 2008 – amusing.
Awhile back I posted this: You’re Divorced And Getting Remarried… What About Your Old Wedding Ring? to ask people what they did with there old wedding ring. 33 people responded, many to say they threw their rings away (typically into a body of water) and I have to say I didn’t believe you.
Continue reading Scorpio, the 8th House and Goods Of The Dead – Pawn Shops And The Wedding Ring From A Failed Marriage

I was talking to someone who was wanting to form a relationship with a person whose nature is similar to mine. I wound up describing the process I go through internally when I make a new friend. I explained that anyone who came on with too much, too fast, a “new best friend” sort made me incredibly nervous.

“When someone comes in and thinks they are going to fill up my life, I feel completely overwhelmed. I may like them initially but if my phone starts ringing off the hook, well right then I know I’m not going to be able to sustain the relationship.”
Continue reading Scorpio and 8th House Types: Trust and Friendship

From 2007 – Paul Simon says there are 50 ways to leave your lover, so pick one.

What’s The Deal With Scorpio Freezing You Out, Or Amputating?

Why Why Is Scorpio Vilified For Doing The Same Thing The Rest Of The Zodiac Does?

I wish we could have a movie of the month club but can’t see how it could be done. We can compile a list of movies one would associate with each of the planets though so let’s give it a whirl starting with Scorpio, Pluto and the 8th house.

These movie picks should involve sex and psychology… perhaps betrayal, double cross, you get the idea. Please leave as many details as you can (without spoilers).
Continue reading Scorpio, 8th House, Pluto Movies