Scorpio Men Opting Out Of Having Sex (Saturn in Scorpio)
Astrology in real life
“He would put out a lot of energy, sexually and he was getting sick of it. He had all this energy to offer, but he was getting older and he questioned it. He wasn’t sure he wanted to put so much out. Why give so much energy when no one knows what you’re doing for them anyway?”
I was talking about a specific Scorpio man I knew but this is broadly applicable. I have seen Scorpio get to a point in their life where they just didn’t want to service people in quite the same way… if at all.
Continue reading Scorpio Men Opting Out Of Having Sex (Saturn in Scorpio)
Astrology-Based Advice: Devastating Young Life – Sexual Abuse, Parents Dead: Sun Conjunct Saturn In Scorpio
Dear Elsa,
I have had problems in my life since as long as I can remember. My parents died when I was young, I was sexually abused as a child, I never lived in a place for more than 2 years, and I ran away at 16. However I remained a fairly happy child through all this.
Now as an adult, I’m constantly fighting fits of depression or incredible anger. One moment I’m fine, the next I’m blowing up at my husband because he pronounced a word wrong (or something else small like that). I feel like I’m never truly happy and I don’t know how it that is, now that I have everything I’ve wanted for so long (a family and security).
I also have a tendency to pretty much live in the past. I just can’t let it go. Is there something wrong with me or is it part of my destiny to suffer?
In Pain
Dear In,
No, I don’t think it is your destiny to suffer, I think it’s your destiny to heal and beyond that to help others heal. Who better for that than you? With your vast experience of suffering you are uniquely positioned, don’t you think? I do. But let me address some of these other things.
Your experience is common for survivors of abuse. You finally get yourself to a place where you have a modicum of security and this is when the shit hits the fan. Because prior to this time, you are functioning in some sort of survival mode. Functioning highly too, something you should be proud of. But now it’s time to heal.
Who Feels Compassion For The People No One Feels Compassion For? Scorpio!
Astrology in real life…
Who feels compassion for the people no one feels compassion for? It’s Scorpio, hands down. I have no idea how I would survive without Scorpio. I don’t think I’d manage.
During the time I refer to in this video, Compassion And Sympathy: Who Garners Yours, Who Does Not And Why I was married to man with 5 planets in Scorpio. He had tremendous compassion for me. My ex, The AMF? Scorpio sun, part of a stellium in the sign, also tremendously compassionate. My friend, Ben? Scorpio Sun who sustained me singlehandedly for 2 solid years.
Continue reading Who Feels Compassion For The People No One Feels Compassion For? Scorpio!
Scorpio, the 8th House and Goods Of The Dead – Pawn Shops And The Wedding Ring From A Failed Marriage
Ask the collective
From 2008 – amusing.
Awhile back I posted this: You’re Divorced And Getting Remarried… What About Your Old Wedding Ring? to ask people what they did with there old wedding ring. 33 people responded, many to say they threw their rings away (typically into a body of water) and I have to say I didn’t believe you.
Continue reading Scorpio, the 8th House and Goods Of The Dead – Pawn Shops And The Wedding Ring From A Failed Marriage
Scorpio and 8th House Types: Trust and Friendship
Astrology in Real Life…
I was talking to someone who was wanting to form a relationship with a person whose nature is similar to mine. I wound up describing the process I go through internally when I make a new friend. I explained that anyone who came on with too much, too fast, a “new best friend” sort made me incredibly nervous.
“When someone comes in and thinks they are going to fill up my life, I feel completely overwhelmed. I may like them initially but if my phone starts ringing off the hook, well right then I know I’m not going to be able to sustain the relationship.”
Continue reading Scorpio and 8th House Types: Trust and Friendship
1 Minute Astrology – Scorpio Amputates But How Would You Prefer Your Lover Leave You?
Astrology in real life
From 2007 – Paul Simon says there are 50 ways to leave your lover, so pick one.
What’s The Deal With Scorpio Freezing You Out, Or Amputating?
Why Why Is Scorpio Vilified For Doing The Same Thing The Rest Of The Zodiac Does?
I wish we could have a movie of the month club but can’t see how it could be done. We can compile a list of movies one would associate with each of the planets though so let’s give it a whirl starting with Scorpio, Pluto and the 8th house.
These movie picks should involve sex and psychology… perhaps betrayal, double cross, you get the idea. Please leave as many details as you can (without spoilers).
Continue reading Scorpio, 8th House, Pluto Movies
Can Intense Relationships With Scorpio Or Pluto Types Last Or Do They Die By Their Nature?
Ask the collective
Dear Elsa,
I am wondering about relationships where there a lot of Pluto aspects at work, deep intense crazy connections, that seem to be rearranging your inner organs, can they last?
What I mean is, if Pluto is transforming and obsessive, and related to death and rebirth, is it the kind of thing a relationship can have a lot of and survive? Is there sort of a built in time frame, a transformational process that naturally ends, or does it just keep working on you endlessly?
Curious
United States
Scorpio The Detective
“The most commonplace crime is often the most mysterious because it presents no new or special features from which deductions may be drawn.”
–Sherlock Holmes, in “A Study in Scarlet”
Scorpio energy is depth energy, beneath the surface energy. Neptunian intuition is airy-fairy and is a result of receiving input from hidden realms, facts that are not in evidence, so to speak. Plutonian intuition is a different thing altogether. This type of intuition, while it may seem to come from hidden sources, those sources are more concrete. Plutonian intuition relies on accumulated facts strung together, facts from the past put together with facts from the present, pieces of the puzzle.
Continue reading Scorpio The Detective
Apologizing To A Scorpio
“For one to expect or ask things of others that he himself, if asked, would not be willing to do or give, is the worst kind of arrogance.”
–Anthony Beal
Scorpio’s reputation for taking offense, and taking it to its highest level, is well-known. Heavily plutonian people can hold a grudge tighter than Jack Benny with a handful of nickels. They are also known to be the sign that will amputate a relationship without looking back. Why are they so deeply offended? In return Scorpio might just as well ask why people are so damned offensive.
Continue reading Apologizing To A Scorpio
Get A Consultation
Schedule a consultation by phone
Schedule a consultation by email
Read what clients have said about usThanks, we look forward to working with you! :-) - Elsa P
Order a Report
Order a Transit Report
Order a Solar Return Report
Order a Relationship Composite Report
Order both relationship reports, save 10%
Order a Lunar Return ReportHeads Up from Elsa P!
Sign up below to get my free weekly email newsletter covering the astrology of the next week. I send this email out every Thursday.
Recent Blog Comments
- debdeb: Amazing.
- daisy: I have a jupiter sun and a saturn moon. I have mastered bullet #...
- Kashmiri: "Once you have your problem scaled, Saturn comes in to have you ...
- Kenji: I find that I persevere with my first house Saturn, and make use...
- music4am: You're very welcome Elsa, Angie
- mistyoga: I'd say Sun. You are absolutely Authentic.
- Cyress723: I am just coming out of the worst 5 years of my life, I was help...
Recent Board Posts
