“…Think about this is a big picture, a Saturn cycle – 29 years. One day you’ll look back at this time when you were lonely, and you’ll realize all that it taught you. You simply can’t grow and evolve without pain and lonely times. You are also on a process of defining your wishes, hopes and dreams and if you don’t like the current situation, what it tells you is that this ain’t it! You have to know that in order to switch gears, see? So you are on track here…”

Are you having your Saturn return? Can you see the big picture here?

Defending a Capricorn-type comment regarding the Saturn Return.

More on this topic – Demystifying the Saturn Return (a video series)

My Saturn return story – How the Universe straightens things out.

“I’d like to read about everyone’s Saturn Return experiences. I have a slight case of anxiety about mine coming up here pretty soon but I am ready. There are changes within myself I need to make and I hope my return will push me into it. Has anyone come out of it with a positive experience, or did it take years after to realize the affects it had? I’m hoping to come out with more confidence and faith in myself.”

What happened at your Saturn Return (roughly age 27.5 -30 for the newbies)?

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if you’re seeing someone who’s going through their SR, especially now as Saturn’s going retrograde, what can you expect? What should you to support him/her? Can you expect him/her to come out of the SR more confident [about your bond], or more clearsighted and perhaps more ready to go it alone?

Well, it all depends.

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I’ve been writing about my Saturn Return. Not just in my last piece here but I’ve mentioned it off and on for a while now. I have used the phrase “things are getting real.”

And each time it elicits what I consider an odd response.

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I had to cancel a party due to strange circumstances and I took it as some sort of sign that a shift had occurred. The universe didn’t want me to have that party. Things like that were very potent at the time. I needed to be alone.

I started sneaking into an apartment pool down the street and swimming laps in the afternoons before work. I went on long solo bike rides seeking meaning in the scenery. I thought about sex constantly.

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I responded:

“I wouldn’t go near a man who dogged his mother. Even if she is a first rate nut job, he still better show some deference and respect otherwise – out the door!

That said, a man enmeshed with his mother is out the door even faster.

Best is a man who accepts him mom with her faults, which he can see.  I was told many years ago,  they’ll treat you exactly as they do their mother and I’ve found this to be very true.”

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The story of how some old man (Saturn) straightened my life out….

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