This question has come up several times in the last week or so.  A man or a woman has made this statement and I have been asked (and asked others) what it means.  The responses have been varied.

Some think that when someone says this to you, they will never marry you.

Continue reading “I’m Not Ready To Get Married…” What Does This Mean?

With Venus conjunct Pluto in Capricorn, this is newly relevant. You can break your bad patterns in relationship. Here’s how!

When Saturn first entered Libra,  I wrote about high maintenance types going out of vogue.  You may notice that we don’t even hear that phrase anymore (in regular circles). People used to boast about their over-the-top demanding personalities and it just doesn’t fly at this point.

Continue reading Low Maintenance Friend

If you talk to a lot of people you see themes emerge and one of the things people are finding out with Saturn in Libra is that in reality, things are not fair. I learned this the last time Saturn was in Libra and I remember being stunned.

For example, I was sued (unfairly) when I was 19 years old. I couldn’t afford an attorney and I had no knowledge of anything “court” or “legal”. I had to do something though. The amount of money I was being sued for was about 25 times more than I had to my name.

Continue reading Inequality In The Real World: “Sometimes They Say That You Eat The Bear, But Sometimes The Bear Eats You!”

I’m going to try to convey a situation that is playing on the periphery of my life because it poses a meaty question. If I try to outline the whole thing this will be a really long post so I’ll have to ask that assumptions my husband and I have made be taken as facts.

Continue reading Reading The Writing On The Wall vs Ignoring It

As we head towards the new moon in Libra and the huge stellium in the sign at the end of the month, there is a lot focus on love and money and balance.  The recent posts concerning my marriage show that the interaction between my husband and I is not superficial.  It occurred to me this morning, that we put far too much emphasis on appearance.  People go to outrageous extremes (like surgery) in order to have what they feel is a more attractive appearance but they totally neglect to develop other parts of themselves such as their character or their intellect.

Continue reading Overemphasis On Appearance

It hit me today, I am cordial to everyone…except maybe my husband. I realized that regardless of what you do to me, I will always be cordial.  If I can’t manage to be cordial to you, I’ll not speak to you at all.

I am not recommending this or anything. I just noticed how reliable I am in this regard. I am always going to be polite and if this becomes impossible, I use gmail filters and never look your way again.

Continue reading Libra Pleasantness (Mars Flavored)

The idea a woman is better off without a man seems to me to have peaked in our society. Women are realizing they do want a man and having all kinds of trouble figuring out how to manage this between the other things they have to do and the fact that a large number of men have little or no interest in marriage.

I think the pendulum is going to swing back now and while some will continue to move stubbornly in the wrong direction, most will wise up. They will either begin to recall why cooperation is in the best interest of both sexes or if they are younger, they’ll simply get in touch with this home truth as society morphs around them.

Continue reading Your Odds Of Marrying…Are Low

Today I had to ask my husband if he would do something for me. I really didn’t know what he’d say.  I didn’t want to think about too hard. I figured he’d help me or he wouldn’t help me for some reason I would be able to understand. If that happened, I would have to ask someone else to help me which would be difficult but just have to be done.

I called him and I was going on and on, nervously.  “P, I’ll do it.  What ever you need from me, you got it. You can count on me for anything.”

I was taken aback to tell you the truth. It makes me tear up to write this and I call it “quintessential Saturn in Libra” due to my humility and respect of anothers boundaries coupled with his support of his wife.