From January 2008, I project my 7th house and guess what? So do you!

There were a lot of questions in the comments, I have started to address them here: Astrology Q&A – What if there is nothing in my 7th house?

Fixating on a person will damage your life. Being fixated on an idea will do you in just as quickly. With Mercury in Pisces, it seems an appropriate time to consider the effects rigid thinking.

I have a client who is driven. This is a great quality, provided a person’s energy is directed towards something productive that makes them or others happy.  If that same energy is directed in a negative way, all kinds of hell can break loose.
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When someone does something nasty to me, the first thing I do is ask myself if I set it up.  I’m not talking about superficial things like attacks on my blog from Internet people. I am talking about deeper betrayals; things that are real and personal to me.

Nine times out of ten, I have set the thing up. I want to happen. I may not be entirely conscious when I set a process in motion, but I am conscious enough.

The tenth time out of ten, I probably set that up as well, lol.
Continue reading Making Your Own Hell – What Fun!

“It’s like being Chris Rock or something,” I told the soldier. “You’re standing there trying to do your job and you have one bastard that just constantly heckles you. Obviously you have to get rid of the person. Or in this case, say you’re at work. You’re just at your job and someone comes up to you says, gee you look angry. You’re so angry today.”

“Yeah?”

“Yeah, they say gee. You really ought to do something about that anger of yours…”
Continue reading How Do You Deal With Passive Aggressive Personality Types?

I have a friend who is associated with a man who finds women everywhere he goes. He finds mother substitutes, specifically and it’s just uncanny. He finds these women (or they find him) and they pretty much form a line waiting to meet this man’s needs.

There is nothing you can do about something like this outside of observe it and people do. The women don’t compete. Instead they remark to each other, “Look at how many mothers he has…” The man is in his 40′s and in whatever case I told her this story… Continue reading Astrology And Deprivation – It Has It’s Upside: Making a Case For Saturn / Capricorn

With Saturn transiting Scorpio, this is a great time to work with subconscious. If you don’t know how to do this, now is a great time to learn.

I have a lot of faith in my subconscious and in my ability to heal, in general. I have a friendly relationship with my subconscious and actually instruct (Saturn) it to take care of business, while I take care of other business.  You can compare this to having a virus program running in the background while you tend to other tasks. Like the virus program,  my subconscious will ping me if there is something I need to inspect more closely or tend to.
Continue reading Saturn In Scorpio: Working With Your Subconscious

I think Scorpio enjoys being complex, but with Saturn transiting their sign, all the sudden many feel the burden of this. Yeah, it’s complicated, so now what? What are you going to do with all this depth? What are you going to do with your power?.

Many are realizing the necessity of getting a handle on their own energy, never mind the other guy. It’s just to easy to kill your lover, isn’t it?

Scorpios are having to deal with the repercussions of things they set in motion, subconsciously, or accidentally and many are finding this is one hell of a job. It’s like telling Bigfooot to quit stomping around. Easier said than done.

Who can relate?

This is for a client who has identified patterns in how she relates men, that doom her relationships. She can break her bad patterns in relationship and so can you. Here’s how!

“So you think I do that?” the soldier asked regarding projecting his shadow (onto me).

“Yes, but not very often. You’re not the type to do a lot of projecting because you look deeply at things. You’ll think about a relationship for years and years, willing to see it from all angles. You strive to do this and once you’ve exhausted the thing you come to a conclusion about what happened. Invariably it’s fair. You are not only fair, you’re generous. You’re very forgiving of other people’s foibles. You give them enormous benefit of the doubt. You find reasons to explain a person’s behavior that actually favor them. This is rare. I don’t know that I’ve seen anyone do this as well as you. You set the example.”

Continue reading His Scorpio Moon Communes With My 8th House: Placing Blame And Projecting Your Shadow In Relationships – Redux

“Just what do you mean when you say, project their shadow?” my husband asked. “Exactly what do you mean by that?”

“Well take these women, they have a falling out with their man. And they say blah, blah, blah he did all this crap to me. He’s this rotten guy.”

“Yeah, they do that.”
Continue reading His Scorpio Moon And My 8th House: Placing Blame And Projecting Your Shadow In Relationships