For people with oppositions in their chart, planets in Libra and heavily tenanted 7th houses… reason number 1104 to curb your propensity to project onto others – it makes you predator bait!

Many are weighing decisions around leaving or trying to maintain troubled relationships. I wanted elaborate on yesterday’s video – Should I Stay Or Should I Go? Decisions made at this time will have long lasting repercussions. Here are some other things to consider.

Do you own your end when a relationships fails?

From January 2008, I project my 7th house and guess what? So do you!

There were a lot of questions in the comments, I have started to address them here: Astrology Q&A – What if there is nothing in my 7th house?

With Saturn in Libra people are being rejected right and left. In some cases this is new experience for them and whether the rejection is warranted or not, it’s painful.

This made me go looking at posts tagged “rejection” and I found this from 2008. I was talking to my husband about an old love of mine…

“I have been thinking about him lately and wondering what he came up with. Do you suppose he’s told himself a story about how awful I am? Or do you think he sees it in another light?”

“He’s probably told himself a story,” he replied.

“He may have a whole story constructed by now and then if becomes reality even if it’s not real. Why do people do that?”

“It’s a defense,” he said.

“Against what?”
Continue reading Rejection – The Relationship Fails, Now Whose Fault Is It?

I found this looking for something else. I’d forgotten all about it but think it’s interesting… from 2009.

Someone on the death notice piece characterized me as a “celebrity” which… well if people know you and know of your life, if you are a point of discussion for people, then I guess there is some truth to that but the things people know about are… bizarre.
Continue reading Bizarre Projection And The Internet Geniuses Out There

Earlier this week, two people reported that they felt or imagined that I did not like them. I don’t mean to put any heat on them. Neither of them were mean or did anything wrong.  I mean, they reported their feelings which is very welcome on this site but today I got to thinking about it.

I wonder why someone would think I don’t like them. I don’t know them. I’m just sitting here doing my work, trying to keep up with the squash from the garden, missing my husband, and stuff. I am pretty sure any and all direct interaction with both people has been friendly. I probably welcomed them to the site when they first came on and that’s about it.  So why would they think this?

I realized they must have some psychological need to have someone looking down at them or disliking them and so here I am. I feel bad for them, feeling that way but I feel bad for me too because I am being used.

I am not the Great Oz. I live in a tract home and burden is heavy.

Piya writes on the Liars In The Zodiac, Concealing Blog:

“I don’t know if this makes sense to you guys but anybody who conceals a lot from me (that I’m dating) … well that just sets off all kinds of red alarm bells for me. What are they hiding? Why are they hiding it? Don’t they want to be themselves around me? All parts, not just some of them … maybe that is Mars in Scorpio talking but I want to know an entire person and I want them to know me, whoever that is…?”

Continue reading Astrology And Deception in Relationship: Venus in Aspect to Neptune And Patterns In Relationship