The Best Relationship Advice I’ve Ever Given
“There was a little girl who had a little curl, right in the middle of her forehead. When she was good she was very, very good, but when she was bad she was horrid.”
–Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
I am a Pisces, and boy can I spot bad Pisces. I’m not saying I’m good Pisces all the time. Those Pisces are so rare that they have whole religions devoted to them. But everyone has Pisces in their chart somewhere, in some house at least, as well as a Neptune somewhere. So in some regard, we all deal with Pisces (Neptune) in ourselves and with each other. I think I just had a revelation (Pisces Mercury) about how to deal.
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Pisces Woman Inundated With Heartless Cheating Scorpio Men
Hello Elsa.
I am a Pisces who grew up with a very strong, almost abusive Scorpio mom. I’m not sure if my anger and resentment towards Scorpios comes from that – all I know is that it is there. Well, I have had a few scorps as friends, a little weird, but we got along all and all. A couple of months ago I realized hat Scorpios are nearly heartless and decided I would no longer associate with them, or try my hardest to avoid them.
Well, right after I said that, I met about 5 Scorpios within 1 month. I started to date one and he just about used me for a good 3 months and left me for his ex-girlfriend. Again, I swore them off again… not even 2 weeks later I fall for another guy that happens to be Scorpio.
Now, it is definitely NOT me going after them, they come after me. Also, as soon as I start liking them back, they stop calling. What am I doing wrong with these Scorpio guys? Is it because they feel I am interested and lose interest? Also, why am I attracting Scorpio people all of a sudden?
Is a Scorpio man capable of being faithful because I have yet to meet one who can. Also, this Scorpio that I like now called me everyday for about a week and stopped calling me, when I called him – he didn’t answer my calls or call back. What now??
Confused
Dear Confused,
Scorpios can be faithful when they choose to be and are in fact well recognized as one of the most loyal signs in the zodiac. Matter of fact, I would be more apt to trust Scorpio than any of the other signs by far, so I don’t think this has to do with some shortcoming universal to Scorpio at all. It’s more a personal problem you’re having and all through your post I was thinking about Mixed Nuts.
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This is from 2007. I was reminded of it because of this thread on the boards – What is a dark Pisces?
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Shaina writes on the Scorpio Strikes, Itty Bitty blog:
“Oh, do I know someone like this? OUI. My boyfriend’s ex-girlfriend is president of the fencing club. It is unbelievable how she can be cutting, rude, spiteful, and not understand how her actions affect the people around her. She is a Cancer sun with a Pisces moon, a Venus in Gemini and a Merc in Leo, a combination of energies which I have noticed can lead to bullying…”
Shaina, I get it. There are people who are supposed to be compassionate but are anything but and this reminds me of a story. I once knew this gal, she was a triple Pisces and she was a friend of mine. She worked in the healing arts and she was enormously kind and helpful to me. She was kind and helpful to all kinds of people, however she treated her boyfriend terribly.
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Open Question: Scorpio Energy… vs Pisces Energy
Ask the collective
From 2007.
Rox asks:
“You say that Scorpios absorb other people’s energy and being one I can say this is totally correct. I find I’m a magnifying glass. Whatever emotion is floating around I tend to mirror and magnify it. So my question is, with all of this absorbing, when do Scorps get to have their “own” energy?”
Rox – I think it’s Pisces that absorbs energy. Scorpio exchanges energy which is a different phenomena. Scorpios have their own energy which they use to attract other people’s energy into their lives whether they are aware of this or not. I’ll explain the difference since I can access both scenarios. Continue reading Open Question: Scorpio Energy… vs Pisces Energy
Pisces Transcends
“So much to do, so little done, such things to be.”
–Elizabeth Taylor
I always hesitate to mention publicly something which might give people the impression that I won’t be able to deliver. Part of it is my Leo rising pride and part my Capricorn moon need to be responsible, because I can and will deliver. I can deliver, how? I have plenty of Pisces; I will transcend. I will find a way to make that lemonade.
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Pisces Likes To Confess
“That’s why her hair is so big: it’s full of secrets.”
–Mean Girls
Sometimes someone says something really simple that changes your perspective forever. I remember Elsa saying to me, after I’d told her something really personal, “Pisces loves to confess.” That is so simple, 12th house, transcending the hidden, with a distinctly spiritual connotation. Healthy Pisces energy, energy expressed in its best form, expunges its own secrets and keeps those entrusted to them by others.
Pisces, Neptune and the 12th house rule secrets but also confession. Want to spot lower Neptune energy expression? Beware the Pisces gossip.
What is your approach to secrets and sharing information? What’s the astrology?
Pisces Coping With The Aries Stellium
“You have to believe in yourself.”
–Sun Tzu
The Aries stellium hits Pisces hard. Aries is the next sign in relation to Pisces. The energy of the next sign trumps. It is one move ahead. Even though I am familiar with Aries energy, having some myself, it is still very jarring to my Sun, my self, my ego. I can hang on to the Pisces way and transcend, blur out or bliss out, or I can try something new. Aries hits hard. Normal Piscean defense is not necessarily reliable in relation to Aries. Let me reiterate: Aries holds trump to Pisces.
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This was post the House on Fry St. Era. Chris and I had moved into a small brick apartment building one street over.
I befriended one of our Indian neighbors. His name was Harsh which he said meant happiness. “I know, I know, that is like the opposite of happiness, Whoa, Harsh! But I assure you, it means happiness.”
Harsh had a 10th house Leo Sun/Cancer Moon combo and was into rock climbing. He frequently tried to coerce me into joining him at the rock climbing gym
One afternoon Harsh came knocking at the door, not an unusual occurrence. But this time, instead of wanting to hang out and practice guitar, he had a question. “What do you know about poetry?”
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Daylight Savings Time: Pisces Lost Something Again
“Time may change me, but I can’t trace time.”
–David Bowie
Spring forward, daylight savings time, “losing” an hour takes place in Neptune-ruled Pisces. We didn’t actually LOSE anything, we just changed where we put it. Some people, usually Sagittarians, reframe this as gaining an hour of daylight. All we really did was readjust the shared agreement of our relationship with time and the changing cycle of daylight. But how apropos is it that this happens when the sun is in Pisces? Neptune obscures, confuses, hides, loses. It also elevates, in its own way, sometimes without reason. It can make things seem sacrosanct. The time change was initiated partially to produce energy savings. Several studies have shown that it doesn’t do that, but still that is the perception.
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Happy Hour Call In Party – New Moon Intentions
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Join us today at 3-4pm (central) for a special Happy Hour posting party on the boards
CArRiE will be serving up drinks behind the bar as usual. Then at half past the hour I’ll be hosting a special call in show via blogtalkradio.
Today’s Topic: New Moon Intentions. Call in and let us know your plans for the new moon in Pisces on the fourth. Read more about this new moon on the transit watch.
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