There are a lot of passionate comments on the Scorpio freezing people out blog. It occurs to me if you’re boring, a Gemini will lose interest and they’ll be out of there. They’re not going to hang around with you when there are endless other options to explore.

I like Aquarians and they like me too, short term. I generally turn out to be waaaaaay to dense and intense for long term association and was dumped by many of them up  until I learned how important it is to give these people space.
Continue reading Open Question: Why Is Scorpio Vilified For Doing The Same Thing The Rest Of The Zodiac Does?

Hi Elsa,

My conscience, or something else, is bothering me, and I’m not sure whether I should be listening to it.

I recently cut a guy loose rather abruptly because of something he wrote in one of his emails that sounded creepy to me. He believed God might want him to focus on providing a safe, secure environment for his tenant, an unwed 22-year-old who just found out she’s pregnant. For instance, he might not insist she pay rent.

This guy is a Pisces and was given to talking about the charity he owes to his fellow humans. But from other things he’d mentioned it seems he has a particular interest in being charitable to very young women. (He’s 53.)

Continue reading Is This Guy Creepy And/Or Is This Woman A Dirty Rat?

From 2007: Busted asks on the Astrology, Energy, Mars and Violence in Nature blog: (comment slightly edited)

“…How do you account for the soldier’s Mars being debilitated and yet him living such a successfully “martial” life? What counters the debilitation in your opinion?

I’m asking because I have Mars in Pisces – not a good placement by all accounts. But it’s conjunct my Sun, opposite Uranus and Pluto, and disposited by Jupiter in Aries. It’s been a weird combo to handle. The Mars energy is ANY-thing but sluggish and Piscean, but it’s been difficult to channel effectively.”

Anyone else? Who has planets in what are traditionally considered weak positions, but where those placements are offset by others that give it a different tone, or even contradicted it? How has it worked out?”

Anyone?

A gal writes:

I met a Scorpio male three months ago. He pursued me relentlessly until I agreed to move in with him. Whilst we were apart for three weeks and just before we moved in together, I discovered by accident that he slept with his Virgo ex girlfriend. I was never meant to know.

When I found out he begged me to stay and that he would do whatever it took to make it work, counseling, or whatever I wanted. Do you think a Scorpio man can love someone deeply even though he slept with someone else?

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This woman is in her 40′s and that’s her solar chart.

Anyone?

Dear Elsa,

I was wondering if you had ever done a blog on MARS SQUARE, OPPOSITION OR INCONJUNCT PLUTO? This has been my most interesting find to date in this subject. All the men so far with this aspect are congenital adulterers and the female counterparts have been abused physically and sexually molested in their lives. I know of a few women with these apsects who go through one man after another and never learn to be faithful until late in life..and some never do.
Continue reading Open Question: Mars Square, Opposite Or Inconjunct Pluto – Sexual Obsession Or Molestation

I know there are people out there who know all about this subject. I’m not one of them. This is not a joke or a trick question, I want to understand this phenomena and I don’t even know what it’s called.

I am going to call it a dark heart or a black heart but I don’t know if that is the correct term. I am talking about the kind of person who is just plain nasty. I don’t know if they know they are nasty. I literally have no insight into this type person but I can describe what they do.

Continue reading Open Question: What Do You Know About People Who Have A Dark Or Black Heart??

(Flashback from Feb 2008) Imagine this: Your long suffering girlfriend who can never seem to find a man, finds a man. She’s happy, he’s happy… by God they have managed to hook up. But then you notice the phenomena. People begin to attack this gal. They undermine, thwart, block, you name it. So why is that? Whyyyyyyyyy?

Follow ups…

My Uranus transit and the slaves newly freed
My theory around freed slave and people who begrudge their happiness

Hey Elsa,

I know a girl with probably a lot of Scorpio who basically told me she could read minds or at least guess the tenor of people’s thoughts. She scared me profoundly and now I void her. Have Scorps been known to penetrate minds that far that they know our actual thoughts?

No Birth Data

Continue reading Open Question – Can A Scorpio Read Your Mind?

Elsie asks:

“As a proud Gemini, I had been thinking of posing the question: What do each of us think of our sun signs? I, of course, think Gemini is the best and am lucky to be a twin. Do other signs feel that way? Is there a Taurus out there wishing he/she were a Pisces? A lot of this has to do with the rest of our charts… but as a whole are we proud of our sun signs?

I was in a workshop with David Pond, a number of years ago. He asked who liked their sun sign and virtually everyone raised their hand. He then asked if the people liked their Moon sign and only about 1 in 5 hands were raised. I was stunned! It seems people are more comfortable with their vital life energy than they are their emotion. And this was a group of astrologers, mind you.

All willing please elaborate in the comments.

Let’s say you are in an exclusive relationship of many months. How would you feel about your lover maintaining contact with an ex?

How would you see this in your chart?