maureen asks on Rotten Things Happen:
“Elsa, would you say you are a Plutonian character?”
maureen, yes. I have a packed 8th house, but I am also very Saturnian, very Mercurial and have a pretty strong Jupiter streak as well.
Er.. my Mars is notorious and I even manage to be pretty strongly Neptunian.
If there is something I am light on, I’d say it’s Uranus but even that is questionable because I shock people on a daily basis.
I would also think I am light on Venus, however I have Libra and planets in the 7th so that would a be a lie.
Hmm..
::wanders off confused::
What planetary energy do you represent most prominently?
Here’s a query:
What do you think is at the root of this?
How would see it astrologically?

Open Question – Is It Okay To Break Up By Phone Or Text
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A reader asks:
“Is it ever acceptable to break up with someone over the phone?”
I can think of scenarios where breaking up on the phone would be appropriate. Abuse and so forth.
But if you have had a significant relationship with someone… if you have been lovers and whatnot then it does seem to me you owe it to the person to face them and tell them what the deal is unless you want to meet them next life, feel ashamed, be a weasel, etc.
What do others think? Where is your Mars?
Dear Elsa,
If you know someone’s birthday but don’t know the exact birth time, are there any techniques one can use for trying to make an educated guess for when it might be? Would their first impression indicate their ascendant or their midheaven, i.e. public face?
Studying
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Do Transits From The Planet That Rules The Chart Warrant Special Consideration?
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25 years ago, Annalisa theorized that transits of the planet the rules the chart are always beneficial. This was innovative at the time because both my sister and I have Capricorn rising and the widely held wisdom at the time was that you were uniformly up a creek when Saturn came ’round.
Her basis was that the individual is naturally attuned to the energy of the chart ruler so had little problem aligning and while this makes logical sense I have never been able to draw a firm conclusion even though both my sister and I always benefit from Saturn transits because here’s the question:
Is it because she is right about this, or do we benefit because we both have Saturn strongly placed and well aspected? In other words, if Saturn were trashed in our charts would we still fare well? Libra has never been able to decide.
Is the chart ruler friendly to the chart… Period?
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Can Intense Relationships With Scorpio Or Pluto Types Last Or Do They Die By Their Nature?
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Dear Elsa,
I am wondering about relationships where there a lot of Pluto aspects at work, deep intense crazy connections, that seem to be rearranging your inner organs, can they last?
What I mean is, if Pluto is transforming and obsessive, and related to death and rebirth, is it the kind of thing a relationship can have a lot of and survive? Is there sort of a built in time frame, a transformational process that naturally ends, or does it just keep working on you endlessly?
Curious
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Open Question: What Zodiac Signs Are Overrated? Who Is Underrated?
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“…Scorpios are definitely overrated, just as Virgos are underrated.”
I agree that Virgo is underrated as is Capricorn. Pisces is rarely valued outside of being a sex toy for Scorpio so I would call them underrated as well. I can’t see that any of the signs are overrated. You?
Is there are sign you feel is given more credit than they deserve? How about a sign that is undervalued?
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Open Question: Physical Appearance of Chiron Conjunct The Ascendent
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Matthew The Astrologer asks:
Saturn on the ascendant makes for mice cheekbones. Jupiter on the ascendant makes for chubbiness. Has anyone noticed an observable, physical effect from Chiron on the ascendant?
Anyone?
Open Question: Is There Karmic Retribution For Cheating On Your Spouse?
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Dear Elsa,
What happens to people, karmically, if they cheat on their husbands or wives? I know a woman with whom I work with, and she has 2 kids and she cheats on her husband with multiple men and he has no idea. Like, is there anything karmically that comes around to people?
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1 Minute Astrology: Synastry, Love And Relationship – How Do Others Affect You?
Astrology in real life
From 2007…
Hi Elsa, I’ve been noticing lately that when in discussions with friends their Sun sign brings out my house placement. For example my Moon is in Leo in the 4th house. When talking to my Leo sun sign friends we end up always talking about our early families: our parents , our grandparents, aunts and uncles and siblings. Same with Libra ruling my 6th House. With my Libra Sun sign friends we invariably end up talking about our health issues.
What do you make of this? Can others relate? Or is this so obvious and basic astrology?
Australia
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