s said on Using Other People’s Energy:

“Cold-blooded is all I can say about lack of reciprocity. Vampires of the spirit. Have to add that, too.”

I thought this was interesting. I’ve never considered people who do this do be cold-blooded though they may be. I’ve considered them to be is foolish and short-sighted.  It just seems if someone is in a position to help you it makes no sense to take a lousy five bucks off them rather than establishing a relationship that can be sustained because it is mutually beneficial.

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goddess writes:

“What helps people deal with anger? I don’t get angry all that often, but one of the absolute best things I can do when I’m feeling angry is to clean the house. That helps more than anything else I’ve found, including other types of physical activity. My Mars is in the 4th, trine Saturn. Energetic cleaning leaves me both feeling free of the agitation and satisfied at the accomplishment when I’m through.”

goddess – Being ultra-Marsy, I work out regularly (daily if possible) and go on walks as well, when I can. With Mars conjunct Mercury, I also write and write and write…

How do you dissipate your anger. Can you see this is your chart?

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Dear Elsa,

I am the sole care taker of my Downs syndrome sister. Yes she has enriched and guided my life. However just wondering why these angels are sent into certain peoples lives and not others. At times this responsibility can be a burden, (but also a blessing). Why do you think we were chosen for this path?

Caretaker

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Check this out.  Does it have any appeal?  What appeal does it have?

Personally, I think I’d be sick to my stomach in that bed.  Too womb like for me. Too closed in.

What do you think and can you tie your opinion to your chart?

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Dear Elsa,

This might seem like a silly question, but I need to keep certain details together right now and storing a to-do list in my dreamy mind is not an option. So, do you have any tips for organization for Pisces? I feel like so many things are scattered. I can’t tell you how many daytime-type planners I’ve owned…

Pisces
United States

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Hi, I recently read one of our old blogs, and would like a follow up question on it. The blog was about when you were with your daughter in a car, listening to a musician. You told her that if she were to pick a man, she must make sure that she knows he LIKES women. That he absolutely loves them.

So how would you know that a man absolutely love women, not here to sabotage, but to love them. Would the moon be afflicted in his chart? What about Venus? If the moon represent the mother or wife, and Venus represents the “younger” sexy girls, what does it do if, lets say, moon is afflicted but Venus is not?

Continue reading Open Question: Men, Women And Astrology – Spotting People Who Don’t Really Like Their Opposite Sex

maureen asks on Rotten Things Happen:

“Elsa, would you say you are a Plutonian character?”

maureen, yes. I have a packed 8th house, but I am also very Saturnian, very Mercurial and have a pretty strong Jupiter streak as well.

Er.. my Mars is notorious and I even manage to be pretty strongly Neptunian.

If there is something I am light on, I’d say it’s Uranus but even that is questionable because I shock people on a daily basis.

I would also think I am light on Venus, however I have Libra and planets in the 7th so that would a be a lie.

Hmm..

::wanders off confused::

What planetary energy do you represent most prominently?

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Here’s a query:

Survivor guilt.

What do you think is at the root of this?

How would see it astrologically?

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A reader asks:

“Is it ever acceptable to break up with someone over the phone?”

I can think of scenarios where breaking up on the phone would be appropriate. Abuse and so forth.

But if you have had a significant relationship with someone… if you have been lovers and whatnot then it does seem to me you owe it to the person to face them and tell them what the deal is unless you want to meet them next life, feel ashamed, be a weasel, etc.

What do others think? Where is your Mars?

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Dear Elsa,

If you know someone’s birthday but don’t know the exact birth time, are there any techniques one can use for trying to make an educated guess for when it might be? Would their first impression indicate their ascendant or their midheaven, i.e. public face?

Studying

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