From 2007 – t-carat writes in regards to the soldier’s asserting that men act differently when women are around as opposed to when they are by themselves:

“They don’t want to get into a crummy fort, they want to get into where the decisions that affect the world are made and where the money is.

If a man can’t work and be himself where women are he’s been living in a cave for the last 2-3 decades…”

Continue reading What is Primal Between Men and Women vs What Might Evolve?

From 2008: “I wrote on my blog that I was a man’s woman,” I told the soldier.

“You’re a woman’s woman,” he said.

“You think?” I said.  I think I am a woman’s woman too. I help women all day long never mind I sued a man for sexual harassment when I was 17 years old when the concept of sexual harassment was on the absolute fringe of society. What’s that if not a woman’s woman?

“P, you’re a woman / woman. You’re just a woman all the way around.”

I figured he meant, women are nurturing. They are caretakers. We may be able to do all kinds of other things but at the heart of it, there is estrogen in the equation and I don’t think it can be denied.

Continue reading Men vs Women – How Well Do You Get Along With The Opposite Sex? POLL

From 2008 – Daemoness writes on the Gaslighting bit regarding the various attacks against me on my blog:

“From my perspective, I believe that a lot of people are still very hung up viewing or dealing with a strong woman. Have you ever wondered if you would be getting this kind of reaction if you were a man posting what you do? I would bet it wouldn’t be happening or very minimally at least.”

Great question and no I have never wondered this buy I am wondering now. What if instead of Elsa P, I was Frank L? Would this change your perception of what is written on this blog?

And here is the burning question:

If your perception would change, how would it change?

(FROM 2008) The soldier and I continued to discuss his targeting of a woman he’s interested in.

“You could probably get any woman you wanted if you put your mind to it,” I said.

“The hell! You’re the only woman in the world who wants a man like me. No women are interested in me but you. Women don’t want some man who runs around gonna kick everyone’s ass all the time,” he said. “Women don’t want anything to do with a man like me.”

“Yeah? Well what do they want?”

“I don’t know. They want a man who cries, I guess. They want their men to cry all the time.”

I just stared because I think by and large this is true.

Do you think women try to feminize men? If so then why?

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Second question… Catch up here: The Aries Mother And Her Son

“With my boyfriend. Well. Our synastry and our composite are both kind of messes. I think most typical astrologers would look at them and tell me we’re doomed. Yet this relationship has lasted five times as long as any other one in my life. I’m happier than I’ve ever been, feel more supported than anyone (even my family) has made me feel, and just plain think he’s a good, admirable man (which aren’t so easy to find.)”

(swearing below the break)
Continue reading Clearcut Astrology: The Aries Mother And The Boyfriend

“P, some of this women aren’t telling you the whole story. Some women… I’m telling you if you’re not going to screw them, you’re not going to screw anyone.”

“I know. I know that, I know what you mean.”

“Yeah, they get pissed and get it all wrong… go tell everyone in the world a bunch of shit about you, none of it is true. I mean they call your sister, your mother, your friends, your boss, your cousins… they’ll even tell your dog about you if they happens to speak English.”

I snorted.

This is true of course but why? Why is there a saying, “Hell have no fury like a woman scorned…” but no equivalent saying regarding men?

From the comments Voice Of Mars (With A Scorpio Moon) On Women, I wrote:

“He means the women deliver more pain then they realize… the men keep a straight / poker face.”

dukkha asked

“…is the straight poker face a ‘male’ thing or a ‘scorpio moon’ thing?”

dukkha, it’s moon for sure, but I think this may apply to men in general in large part. You just don’t see many men don’t see many men crying (overtly) about a women who is going or gone. The soldier talks about this a lot, he has definitely seen his share of men broken up over women men and when I hear these stories I get the distinct idea the women have no idea they have delivered such a punch.

Continue reading Venus vs Mars: How Men And Women React To The Loss Of Love Relationship

“Well he likes us,” I told the soldier regarding Vidroid. “He likes being around us, I think it is because we are both inexhaustible. There is always more you can glean from either one of us.”

“That’s probably true.”

“I think it is and I think he’s figured this out so he wants to spend as much time with us as he can. He wants to learn everything he can. Like how to get a woman, and how to keep one.”

“Well you better teach him how to get one because I have no idea. I have never been able to figure out how these guys do it. The only time I have ever got a women it was because circumstances through us together and kept us there long enough for pheromones to start working.”
Continue reading Bridging The Gap: Men And Women (Venus And Mars) Working As A Team

“Tacoma? Yeah, I’ve been there,” I said.

“Me too. In the truck,” he added.

“Yeah, I went there to see a friend. Supposed friend. It was a man. He was supposed to be a friend but then you get there and they try to stick their dick somewhere.”

He laughed. “Well of course.”

“What do you mean, of course? You think I’m stupid?”
Continue reading Men And Women (Venus And Mars): Planet Reality vs Planet Unrealistic

Today I complained about how the men around here don’t do their share (I mean they don’t do anything) around keeping the house up. The soldier listened carefully and then told me it was entirely my fault for not commanding my troops well enough… or for that matter, not commanding them at all.

“You can’t expect a man to know what to do if you don’t tell him what to do,” he insisted. “There is no one here who won’t do whatever you want us to do but you have to come up with what it is you want us to do. Write it down! Then if it’s not done you can say, do it motherfucker, it’s just job! It’s says so right there,” he said pointing his finger at the hologram lists of chores. Now get off you ass and do what you’re supposed to do!”
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