With Venus in aspect to Uranus and Pluto, this is a good time to detach (Uranus) from your obsessions (Pluto) with others (Venus)….

Does he regret leaving me? This is a common question and typically the answer is no.

I don’t say that to be harsh. I thought a post like this might help people who are consuming themselves over  the loss of some old lover to move on.

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I have a lot of single clients who use online personal ads with mixed results. I am not single and looking but I am tactical.  If I were looking for love right now, I may or may not use the online personals but I would definitely be shopping my local paper…and advertising there as well.
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uzmi writes on Defending Your Relationship From The Other Woman:

“I definitely agree, you have to defend your relationship. but I’d love examples because I’m not quite sure what works best to prevent such attacks. Is it body language, glares, what exactly? All hints & tips please! what do you do when women blatantly look a man up & down, short of violence? …not that I’m averse to that but cant always get away with it .”

uzmi, there are women who get cheated on repeatedly and women who are never cheated on. This is not accidental. It starts with your choice of man, I’d say. If you choose a man with a history of cheating, chances are he’s going to cheat on you as well.

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Since Saturn has gone into Libra, people are getting very serious about solving their relationship problems so I am getting called.  Besides spending my life obsessed with getting the boy, I have made a study of human interaction and while this may come off as a rant, it is meant to help because many are stumbling around out there with no idea where to start.

Here’s where to start: WHAT DO YOU WANT?

I am forever talking to women who are let down and disappointed in some poor bastard that never had a chance. He didn’t have a chance on guessing what the world might have pleased the woman because guess what – she has no idea herself.

• She says she wants one thing when she wants something else.

• She says it’s okay for him to go or to do or say and and when he takes her at a word, she brings the house down.
• She says she wants him to lead but she micromanages his every breath.

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Relationships are front and center with Venus and Mars and Saturn in Libra so I thought I’d take on some of these communally asked questions as part of my series – tag – Love Tips.

A lot of women mistakenly believe a man has serious and authentic interest in her when his primary interest is in maintaining access to sex. Few want to be alone and if a woman is not too demanding, a man will most definitely hang around for sex and I can’t say that I blame him. After all, he’s horny and he’s got a consenting adult.

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Saturn is wrapping up in Virgo, and a lot of my consultations have been focused on gathering data and coming up with ideas in regards to Saturn in Libra. This makes sense as we’ve already had a taste of Saturn in Libra.

With Saturn in Libra, some  were introduced to feelings of loneliness, perhaps for the first time in their lives. Some became aware of their age as they considered leaving (or entering) a relationship and there were any number of other manifestations. When Saturn went retrograde, the pressure to resolve this stuff fell off.

With Saturn in Virgo, people are now thinking these things through.  I have Mars in Libra and I was working on a series, Love Tips and Tactics with Saturn in Libra and I want to take this back up now.

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In January 2010, I was working on this series, Tips and Tactics On Attracting for Saturn in Libra. I made this video but did not publish it due what I was thinking at the time. I also dropped the topic.

With Mercury retrograde, I found it and after re-thinking, here it is.
If he doesn’t love you – so what? aka Keep your common sense…

If you can be satisfied in relationships, you’ve got yourself a selling point.

With Saturn in Libra and people ’round the world getting serious about love and relationship. I often mention how important it is to discern when taking in information and this applies in spades when shopping for a partner.

A lot of people use personal ads to meet potential mates and while there is nothing wrong with this it pays to use your head. For example the personal ad sites are full of predators and I don’t mean people who want to kill you.  Screw you, maybe.

As an example once Scorpio in his 50′s told me that getting women on Match.com was like “shooting fish in a barrel”, so keep that in mind because he’s quite right.

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