Liz asks:

“Is it a good thing to date people who have similar charts to yourself? I’m a late Libra rising and I’ve dated another Libra rising and am communicating with a Scorpio rising. Or is it better to look to people who are opposite rising?”

Given a choice, I would go for the person with energy opposite mine but I have Libra so would be looking for balance.

Anyone else?

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I am pulling up for reference for Bawdy Astrology.  It’s about yin type women (me) who run with yang type women (Kay).

I have run with yang sort of women most of my life. My best friend at ten, was a lesbian who came out in high school and nothing much has changed. I am forever running with some gal in jeans and a t-shirt where I am almost constantly wear skirts.
Continue reading Kay’s Filthy Pants: Aquarius Sun, Libra Moon

It hit me today, I am cordial to everyone…except maybe my husband. I realized that regardless of what you do to me, I will always be cordial.  If I can’t manage to be cordial to you, I’ll not speak to you at all.

I am not recommending this or anything. I just noticed how reliable I am in this regard. I am always going to be polite and if this becomes impossible, I use gmail filters and never look your way again.

Continue reading Libra Pleasantness (Mars Flavored)

I was talking to a pal, she’s a Libra.  She’s got a Saturn transit and sure enough, she’s got a serious decision to make.

This is an old friend, someone I’ve known for more than 25 years. Her youngest child is leaving home to go to college.  She’s recently divorced after 25 years and she has to decide what to do with her life, or even the rest of her life for that matter.  This one chapter is clearly ending so what now?  Does she stay where she’s at? Move?  Move where?

She outlined her choices and asked me if I had an opinion.

‘Er…yes, I do,” I said, looking at her chart. “You’ve got to go wherever it is that will give you the best chance to partner. I just don’t think you’re going to be happy alone. I don’t know that you can stand it, or that you should stand it…”

She agreed.

She’s in a small town with no men available and as far as I am concerned, she may as well have started packing that night.  “You and I were born to partner. We love men and we definitely want to be with one. We’ve always had this in common, since way back, so don’t kid yourself.  Wherever you think you’re most likely to find a man, that’s where you should go…”

I think this might surprise people who don’t have Libra in their chart. So be it!

Anyone else out there who knows they don’t want to be alone – period?

I was just talking to denamaria yesterday, we have similar natures.  Lots of  Cap and Libra that is. I haven’t talked to her in weeks because I was on vacation and she’s been out of the country but we finally caught up. I told her about some people who betrayed me and she told me about some people who betrayed her. We agreed over the audacity of people who do this kind of thing and still talk to you. What the hell are they thinking?

denamaria lost her job awhile back, you may recall.  She’s recovered since because she’s and excellent worker but has learned that her “friends” orchestrated it. They told her all about it; how they had to screw her up to save themselves. They are now out of work too and expecting sympathy. They obviously felt their actions were justified  since they’re talking all about it and it just goes to show the variance in the standards people have.

Continue reading Betrayal? Says Who? Does Libra Invite Betrayal?

I was talking to my husband last night about, Phil Donahue, primarily. I used to watch his show regularly and really enjoyed it. This is due my Libra. I love discourse!

I liked, Phil, a Sagittarius. While his views on various topics were always known, he allowed others to express their beliefs and provided them an incredible platform or forum for this. He’s the one who who launched talk shows and I was enamored with him because I just love discussing things.

Continue reading Saturn In Libra And Discourse