s said on Using Other People’s Energy:

“Cold-blooded is all I can say about lack of reciprocity. Vampires of the spirit. Have to add that, too.”

I thought this was interesting. I’ve never considered people who do this do be cold-blooded though they may be. I’ve considered them to be is foolish and short-sighted.  It just seems if someone is in a position to help you it makes no sense to take a lousy five bucks off them rather than establishing a relationship that can be sustained because it is mutually beneficial.

Continue reading Open Question: Your Opinion Of Energy Vampires Or Thieves

From 2007 - With a current  T-square the Cardinal signs, people want to control others.   Meet, Paul, a regretful control freak  who tells a story on Henry...

You’re going to be a decent person, when? I recorded this in 2008. It continues to be relevant with Saturn in Libra. Does the manner in which you leave one relationship impact the next? Does the trail of bodies you leave behind mean anything?

 

Saturn is wrapping up in Virgo, and a lot of my consultations have been focused on gathering data and coming up with ideas in regards to Saturn in Libra. This makes sense as we’ve already had a taste of Saturn in Libra.

With Saturn in Libra, some  were introduced to feelings of loneliness, perhaps for the first time in their lives. Some became aware of their age as they considered leaving (or entering) a relationship and there were any number of other manifestations. When Saturn went retrograde, the pressure to resolve this stuff fell off.

With Saturn in Virgo, people are now thinking these things through.  I have Mars in Libra and I was working on a series, Love Tips and Tactics with Saturn in Libra and I want to take this back up now.

Continue reading Astrology, Tips And Tactics On Attracting Love: With Saturn In Libra, Veneer Won’t Cut It

After writing (in the comments) about how at times people mistake me as something or the other and then become incensed when it’s revealed to them I am not who they think they are and reading the responses I got to thinking some more about this.

The one gal I was referencing who went absolutely insane over my lack of hatred for of strippers and whores and the men who frequent them, clearly thought based on reading my blog for a month or two (?) that I was akin to her. You know. She thought she could rely on me to be a kindred spirit and I think we were to a large extent. To a very large extent. But then we hit on this one issue and she just went ballistic.
Continue reading Neptune: More On The Projection… Mistaken Identity, Etc.

Tips from the goat..

satori writes:

“I was just printing out my new car insurance card (and freaking out about the fact that I had previously been driving without it,
unbeknownst to me) and remembered this fall at the licensing office when I registered my son’s new used car. The woman who sold it to me told me we could write in whatever value we wanted and greatly reduce the tax paid. I told her no, I wanted to do it as written. She was really peeved for some reason and incredulous that I would pay more when I didn’t have to. As much as I’m a people pleaser and didn’t like the fact that she was looking down on me I held my ground. My integrity is worth far more than a few hundred dollars…

Continue reading Astrology And Integrity… Libra Co-dependence And A Criminal Mind

eva writes on Judging A Person’s Saturn Return

“Well, hang on a minute. When I was 28 I knew about astrology and I knew about Saturn returns. I believed at the time that what “Saturn” meant was that you had to grow up and be responsible, and what I did was, I went back to graduate school, got serious about being a grownup and a parent and spent the next 15 years trying as hard as I could to make something out of my life and being as responsible as I could to my husband, my mother, my brother, my child, the mortgage and society.
Continue reading More Definition And Discussion Of The Saturn Return

“I don’t know what you did, P,” the soldier said regarding a recent rejection I suffered.  “What did you do?”

“I have no idea but something happened. How would I know what it was?  I assume I wrote something offensive but how could I know what it is that upset him/her?  I write 10 blogs a day a lot of the time.  That is 50 or 70 blogs a week so how am I supposed to know which one of them was a problem?”

“I don’t know.”
Continue reading Your Writing, Your Look, Your Manner Of Dress: How Much Do You Invest In Being Politically Correct And Pleasing To Others?

The soldier was going through his mail and handed me his Social Security Statement. “Look at this, P,” he said. “This is all the money I have ever made in my life.”

I looked at the figures trying to think what I was supposed to say or glean from them.

“Look there,” he said pointing to the first year he reported income. “I was 15 when I started working. I made $414 working on a farm,’ he said with a snort. “And look at what I made when I met you. I made $5500 that year, almost $5600.”

“This is unbelievable,” I said as the figures on the page started to mean something.

Continue reading Astrology, Money And Integrity: Another Angle On Venus In Aspect To Saturn