Debby writes:

“My mother has a stellium in Scorpio – Sun, Mercury, Venus and Jupiter, and Pluto aspects at least her Sun and Venus. Manipulative she may be, but I can’t remember her betraying me or breaking my confidence even once. I’m kinda surprised about the Scorpio/8th house reference on this thread in connection with betrayal as she has a Scorpio stellium and I have an 8th house stellium and we exchange some Pluto aspects in synastry and mutual loyalty and confidence were so natural and obvious that I can’t even remember talking about it, we just took it for granted and it was never a problem. We also didn’t talk about how it was wrong to tell other people’s secrets – it was something I just knew. She never told other people’s secrets as far as I know, she also hates gossip.”

Continue reading Betrayal, Gossip, Exposing A Person’s Secrets, Talking Behind Their Backs – POLL

Gossip used to be a hot topic around here a few years back. (tag – gossip) Not so much lately but this post about Sexual Rumors got my attention.  That poor girl.

I don’t like to gossip.  It’s a 3rd house thing where my focus is on the 9th.  I like big, broad ideas that are published out in the open, not little whispers, tiny lies and what becomes a game of Chinese Whispers aka Telephone.

That said, I am a frequent target of gossipers. My ears are burning all the time and occasionally someone tells me they heard I had three noses, four arms and a tail.

Continue reading Gossip! Let’s Talk About It!

When my Moon progresses to a new sign, invariably there is a fundamental change in my personality.  This is from back when my progressed Moon was in Gemini.

“cf, its dog. How are you?” I asked.

“I’m good, dog. I’m great. How are you girlfriend?”

“Aaaah. I’m calling you for some gossip. Got some?”

She laughed. “Gossip?”

Continue reading When The Progressed Moon Changes Signs, There Is A Fundamental Personality Change

The other night the soldier said he preferred to avoid knowing my secrets, they disturb him. I wrote about that and some others commented they also preferred not to hear other people’s secrets.

Now I can understand because there are some things I don’t want to know anything about, details around my lover’s ex-lover would be an example but a bonafide secret? Man, what could be more tasty than that?

Yeah, I love knowing secrets and I am fortunate as people tell me plenty of them. I just love knowing things I am not supposed to know – Going places I am not supposed to go, etc.
Continue reading My 8th House Observations Around Secrets, Both My Own And Others Plus Notes on Gossip

The Moon in Virgo is forms a T-square with Uranus in Pisces and the stellium in Gemini. There is a lot of talk out there, cross-talk specifically which is maddening for many.

Personally, I hate triangulating in relationship preferring to deal one and one and above board so if I tell you to f%%k off today when you try to involve me in gossip, don’t be surprised.

Er… Uranus is involved so I guess I should say, don’t be surprised when you are surprised.

How many feel similar?

Everybody knows how I feel about gossip and in particular, kicking people when they are down:

The Way Of The Culture – You’re Down? Great, Let’s Kick You!

Britney Spears: Pluto In Sagittarius and the Shadow Side Of Publishing

Mr. Blackwell’s 48th Annual Worst-Dressed List – Finally, Some Decorum

satori sent me clip. Craig Ferguson Speaks From The Heart about his alcoholism and his rethinking mocking and making jokes about people in crisis.

I think this trend was a result of Pluto (and Jupiter) in Sagittarius and I hope with all my heart it’s seen it’s heyday.

I saw my daughter tonight… it’s her birthday with the new Moon in Gemini. Talk about Gemini to the nth power… check this:

I brought her yearbook and she cracked it open and pointed to some gal. “I know her! I have been hearing things about her (gossip) but I don’t know if they are true. This person tells me this and this other friend tells me something else and I don’t know who is lying.”

“I see.”

But then she started in about the twins. Her best friends are twins, she used to got to school with them. Apparently some gal she know now claimed to know these girls.
Continue reading How’s This For Gemi-Lying? Quintessential Gemini In Nature

The stellium in Gemini square Uranus, dominates and people are talk, talk, talking.

Lie, lie, lying too most likely, I think it’s kind of funny.

Day like today, one shoe fits most.

If you get through the day without a lie crossing your lips, I’d say you can consider yourself extraordinary.

joanna writes on Who Asked You?

To be honest, I don’t enjoy that other people ask my opinion much…

joana, I think people don’t ask others opinions because there are so many opinions out there these days! There has been a lot of energy in Sagittarius over these last years and just look at the explosion in publishing (BLOGS)! I think this is going to shift now. People will start to filter what they read. Quality over quantity, they will discriminate!

For example, we had a freak tornado in Colorado yesterday so I check the weather today and there is a big article about how we could all die from weather. If you pay attention, the article states clearly the weather system has moved out into other states but this does not stop them from writing a provocative title. It’s like they are in the news and want to stay there!

Personally, I have given up all gossip since Saturn went into Virgo. I just don’t have the time for that sort of low (no) reward type reading and what I am getting at is this:

Thoughtful people with something of substance to say are coming into style. Flash and trash – uh uh. Give us something useful, dammit! It does not help me to look at Paris Hilton’s clothes.

Are you filtering what you read these days?