Commitment-Phobic Gemini Interracial Dating: Astrology-Based Advice

Hi Elsa,

I am a flighty Gemini. I’m 30 years old and have never had a ‘serious’ relationship. I’ve only dated a few men. I currently have a “friend with benefits” that is my longest relationship ever. I have struggled with my feelings for him, and I would never admit them to him – especially since he keeps telling me not to fall in love with him.

What I can’t understand is this guy is my total opposite. He’s the first black guy I’ve dated, while I’m pale. He’s only here for one more year of school, and I live here. Overall, we’re not all that compatible.

So, what the hell is my problem???

Flighty Gemini