Dear Overwhelmed,

Let me read this back, simplified and from my perspective:

You have met someone new, and your life is in flux. This new person is supportive and has you energized; however he is a human being, with various patterns and quirks. The bastard doesn’t go left, left, left, left. He goes left, left, up, down, left, left…

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From 2008:

Astrologer, Claire-France Perez is a double Gemini and can’t help but be interesting.

“You don’t live in the world of agreement, sweetheart. You live by your heart…” she said. I can’t quote her fully because I can’t remember her words verbatim but she was essentially saying I did not do things so I could get along. “You don’t care if you get along with anyone, you care that you do what is right to you, in your heart.”

“Err…”

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Mercury ruled Gemini is known for its mental dexterity and its dual nature. Some say they are naturally bisexual. Others say asexual. I see Gemini as sort of ambidextrous in all ways. The sign is changeable, almost always intellectually sophisticated but often flighty. Easily bored, they hate being bogged down and always on the look out for something “interesting”.

And as a child, we have such a wonderful thing as children that we can just make the best of everything, and say, well this must be what everybody else is experiencing, and I’ve got to make the best of it. You don’t know that it’s not good until you witness something that it seems better.
Anne Heche

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I wrote this in 2003 or so. Pulling it up because someone mentioned dating and Gemini. I am about 28 years old in this story and I was dating ’round the zodiac at the time.

He was a Gemini with a Leo rising and an Aries Moon. We were another match made in hell but he had Mars in Leo conjunct my Venus which makes for a sexual phenomena. Due this we both hung in longer than we would have otherwise. When I heard, “Get it while you can”, and I it seriously.
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This is one of my first videos, circa 2007…

I started to write about Notions and the People Who Have Them but got off track. I want to get back on track because I think this is such an important topic and rarely (if ever) discussed in life or in astrology.

noâ‹…tion
   /ˈnoʊʃən/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [noh-shuhn] Show IPA Pronunciation
–noun
1. a general understanding; vague or imperfect conception or idea of something: a notion of how something should be done.
2. an opinion, view, or belief: That’s his notion, not mine.
3. conception or idea: his notion of democracy.
4. a fanciful or foolish idea; whim: She had a notion to swim in the winter.
5. an ingenious article, device, or contrivance; knickknack.
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I have a little drama going at the moment (don’t we all) and I was going to email a pal about it…. Claire-France this is who is a double Gemini.

Contemplating this as I walked into the kitchen to feed, Dora, I asked myself, yeah it’s happening but is it interesting? Should you be bothering her with this? Because if it is not interesting you should probably not bother, cf. Only call her when you know you’ve got meat and not going to bore her…”

Ha ha ha

It was my double Aquarian mother who said it was a sin to bore people. I heard her, therefore Geminis like me.

(that’s my daughter, years ago. A Gemini on the phone of course)

Dear Flighty,

I’m not sure you have a problem. I am sure you have Uranus in the seventh house and you’re keen to shock, break rules and experiment in relationship though and I figure your man is in similar circumstance. He wants to experiment as well, but he’s got some sense of responsibility about it so it’s, “Baby, baby, don’t get hooked on meeeeeeeeee”.

Anyway, your whole deal is quintessential Venus/Uranus stuff, including the relationships with “friends” so I dunno. Just keep doing what you’re doing. It’s you and it’s authentic.

Oh!! And the reason you’re a little more attached than usual? It’s only because he’s detached. The fact you’re going to get out of this is a given. In other words, you’re a commitment phobe and he’s a commitment-phobe’s dream.

Good luck.

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Eventually Billy’s friends stumbled in and Billy was visibly encouraged. He was falling down hard and apparently he thought things would turnaround at this point. Back in control, he stood up and gallantly offered me his hand. I stood and he escorted me, swishing of course, to the back of the venue to meet his friends.

Oh brother.

Shock!

Horror!

This was NOT a group of people you dress for.

Billy’s friends were disgusting and that did it. All the sudden I was pissed off. I knew it wasn’t justified, but what’s that got to do with anything?

Not only was I pissed, I started to pout too. Poor Billy. Let’s see here.

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