Commitment Phobic In Her 40′s: Now What? Astrology-Based Advice
Elsa,
I feel like I’m in the midst of yet another transition or maybe still transitioning, having not yet found my place in the world, not yet found my love/life partner in this world, not yet found my livelihood in this world and desperate for all (and secretly wishing they are all intertwined with each other). It’s not for lack of opportunity or interested companions -I’ve had & have numerous wonderful men profess their love & desire to be married or build a life together. Ok, so maybe I’m a commitment-phobe aka having to have everything right & perfect before I can completely trust and commit.
Where is this ridiculous fear coming from? I know… it’s coming from me. I suppose the real question is, how do I bust it?…will I bust it?…so I might fully engage in life like I know is possible!!
Many thanks Elsa for your insight!!
Looking For My Captain’s Hat
Dear Hat,
I have no idea what your signature means but I left it intact for others to puzzle over while I try to crack your problem, which I feel is far more common than the people care to admit. The cause, and the specifics from person to person are endlessly varied but what you have in common is this: You have cracked 40 years old and you are alone. I’ll tell you exactly why I think this is.
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1 Minute Astrology – Pluto Transits And Loyalty In Friendship
1 Minute Astrology video
Double Gemini and astrologer Claire-France Perez befriends the repulsive – Me! (recorded March, 2008, updated below)
Men dress with their charts as well as women. Men have their particular style but often wear “uniforms” because it is safe and men don’t have the choices women have when it comes to clothing. Men, like women, dress for their Venus, Mars, Rising or Sun but most of the time the rising has a say in how they present because they tend to live their lives with their rising in mind.
Gemini
Layering primary colors is a great idea for a Gemini man. Gemini loves color and most Geminis love to mix it up so having striped shirts and solids is important for their wardrobe. Basics include striped and solid shirts and T.’s in interesting colors as well as T.’s with something on them that jumps out at you for your casual days. A Gemini can’t resist a bit of costume in their wardrobe and many “dandies” are Gemini men!
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The Air Signs: Gemini, Libra and Aquarius by Nota
Elementary, my dear.
The signs can be divided into Triplicities, that’s groups of three, also known as Elements.
Gemini, Libra and Aquarius make up the Air signs.
Air is abstract. People with a lot of air in their charts tend to intellectualize. I don’t mean they sit around with pipes and patched jackets talking about literature, (well, some of them do.) I mean they tend to invite things into the mental space and interact with them there. They like a good think.
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Astrology And Children – It All Plays, Always, Whether You Like It Or Not
Astrology in real life
A person’s chart shows itself at a very early age. If you happen to have planets in signs or house that taboo, too bad! It is not like you are going to be able to avoid this stuff just because you’re 8 years old.
If this is hard to accept it may make it easier or more accessible if you apply the same principles to a more comfortable chart. My sister’s son comes to mind. He’s Gemini with a Libra rising, a very smart and sociable kid. Consequently, growing up he was selected for anything and everything that required these skills.
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Home Style, Lifestyle By Signs: Aries, Taurus, Gemini by Annalisa
Astrology and Style
How we live is just as much of a statement about who we are as what we wear. Here are a few ideas to help you jump start your life each day and give you more of a comfortable environment!
Aries
Try decorating your home with large open spaces to clear the clutter from you life and your mind so you can create with the most clear mind and ideal area for your very creative life. Clear away any knick knacks that have no place cluttering up your life to get space for what is “you” and what inspires you. Don’t decorate as you think you should, decorate in a way that feels best to you no matter how different that may be.
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Dixie’s Daily Tarot, October 15, 2010: Building on Betrayal
Astrology Meets Tarot
On a good day, someone can all but slap you and it’s nothing to let it roll right off your back. On a bad day, a funny look can send you spiraling. (Or maybe that’s just me.) The greater part of subjective experience seems directly related to what goes through your head at the time. Being aware of this can help you work with it.
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When The Progressed Moon Changes Signs, There Is A Fundamental Personality Change
Astrology in Real Life…
When my Moon progresses to a new sign, invariably there is a fundamental change in my personality. This is from back when my progressed Moon was in Gemini.
“cf, its dog. How are you?” I asked.
“I’m good, dog. I’m great. How are you girlfriend?”
“Aaaah. I’m calling you for some gossip. Got some?”
She laughed. “Gossip?”
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Astrology-Based Advice: Divorcing Aquarius Woman Meets Scorpio Man
Dear Elsa,
My marriage is ending, which is a very good thing. I am seeing someone else though (a Scorpio), who is adding to the confusion in my life.
He is foreign, ambitious, passionate, and exciting. When I am with him, everything seems so effortless and my problems seem manageable. Because we both are very busy people, we do not spend a ton of time together – but the time we do spend is very fulfilling. He is very demonstrative and affectionate physically and verbally, and tells me he loves me and such. However, this is all tempered with days when he is not exactly cold or ambivalent, but close to that.
He’ll be distant for days, and then jump back to being adoring and attentive. It will seesaw like this. Days that are so lovely… then days that are upsetting, because it seems like we are wasting what precious time we have together. This confuses me.
Is this all just a huge mistake? He has been patient and supportive for the most part, but there are those times when he gets almost fatalistic. There are a million other things going on in my life that make every day a trial, and he has been the one place where I feel calm and like I can be myself for better or worse. But then there are those days when his distance adds to the pressure.
I am so confused, I don’t even know what my question is. Is this worth it? I do absolutely adore him but are we just too different? Is this just crappy timing, or could this work?
Signed,
Overwhelmed
Dear Overwhelmed,
Let me read this back, simplified and from my perspective:
You have met someone new, and your life is in flux. This new person is supportive and has you energized; however he is a human being, with various patterns and quirks. The bastard doesn’t go left, left, left, left. He goes left, left, up, down, left, left…
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How Important Is It That People Agree With You? POLL
Astrology in real life
From 2008:
Astrologer, Claire-France Perez is a double Gemini and can’t help but be interesting.
“You don’t live in the world of agreement, sweetheart. You live by your heart…” she said. I can’t quote her fully because I can’t remember her words verbatim but she was essentially saying I did not do things so I could get along. “You don’t care if you get along with anyone, you care that you do what is right to you, in your heart.”
“Err…”
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