Back when I was pregnant, I had this gal cleaning my teeth. She was about my age, maybe a little older and she chatted as she worked.

Having finished the horrible scraping part of the procedure, it was time to polish. She said she had several flavors of polish and since pregnant women are sometimes queasy, she was going to allow me to choose the flavor.

“You can have pina colada, cherry or mint,” she said.

Continue reading Astrology and Control Freaks in Nature – The Dental Hygienist

Thus is from 2007: What’s a dog to do?

To update for 2010, I think (more) people are going to discover they have feelings similar to mine as Pluto in Capricorn, etc. brings primal feelings, like the fear of survival to their consciousness.

Are the Cardinal signs controlling?

Yes they are, as are people with lots of planets in the Cardinal houses (1st, 4th, 7th, 10th). But you should not assign this a negative connotation.

ALL ENERGY IS NEUTRAL UNTIL IT’S DIRECTED.

Yes, your Capricorn mother may try to control your life but she may just as easily control herself and her own life, teaching you to do the same in the process.
Continue reading Demystifying Astrology: Are The Cardinal Signs (Aries, Cancer, Libra, Capricorn) Controlling?

3 years ago, I was talking to the soldier:

“I don’t want to say anything about that because it’s not my business,” I said. “I try to stay out of other people’s business completely. I’d don’t like pissing people off by telling them what I think about things that are none of my business in the first place,” I said.

“Bothering me? You don’t bother me. I want you in my business. I want you to figure out some of the stuff. I don’t have time to figure it out myself. In fact I’m relying on you so stop staying out of my business! Come on, P. Get in my business and get it in now, this is exactly what I want.”

When I was young I was pretty controlling but I have very strong boundaries now.  They rarely fail and if you want me in your business, I have to be invited or asked directly for input or energy. Otherwise? Nothing.

What about you?

From 2007. This is in honor of the gal who showed up on my blog last night, wanting to fix me and control my communications. Saturn won’t be in Virgo for long, so last chance to learn this: Quit Fixing People How To Have No Friends At All…

On the subject of appearance (mine in particular) my problems on this front are long-standing.  For example I once had a boyfriend and while I loved him and he loved me, my clothing gave him fits.

His Saturn was square my Venus, I am sorry to say because here he complains I am dressing wrong (not good enough) – Domesticating Elsa.

And then here he complains that I am dressing too well and look too good – Bianca Jagger.

Then there was the guy who wailed, “Why can’t you wear jeans and suntan pantyhose like everyone else, even thought I was wearing a purple skirt and a gold hat on my head when he met me… and blue tights by the way.

Continue reading Venus Mashed With Saturn – Controlling The Other’s Vanity Or Aesthetic

From May, 2008 – Er… this is current again because the police just visited my sister’s house about this case…. today, I mean under this grand cross.

One of my first videos complete with my rebellious personality sticking out. ::rolls eyes::
I started making these videos and the soldier tried to boss me…

Dear Gemini,

What a great question and what a great time to be asking it. This is your problem: You are insecure. When it’s just you and your friend over coffee, that’s one thing because you are probably able to control things. But when other people enter the equation, you quickly realize you cannot control the group and so you panic. Continue reading Gemini Gets Jealous Of Her Friend When The Stakes Are Raised: Astrology-Based Advice

I wrote several blogs over the weekend about the so-called freedom-loving progressives (Uranus) who actually try to oppress and control (Saturn) other people. You are going see a lot more of this as Saturn opposes Uranus (first exact aspect is on November 4th, 2008, election day).

Now I am going to hammer on this upcoming Saturn Uranus opposition the same way I did when Saturn opposed Neptune (Hall of Mirrors series). I feel ultra quipped because I grew up with two mega Aquarian parents (Uranus) but my double Capricorn grandfather (Saturn) lived 5 acres over and guess who went back and forth 10 times a day?

(swearing below the break)

Continue reading Saturn Opposing Uranus And The Case Of The Girl With The Ugly White Boots