My eye on the sky.
With Uranus set to square Pluto into 2015, CONTROL is going to be an ongoing theme. With Venus conjunct Saturn, Mars conjunct Pluto on Saturn-ruled Capricorn, and the Moon in Aries setting off the Uranus/Pluto square, I thought this would be a good thing write about today.
Outtakes and various other sundries.
“This represents your thinking which is completely independent of his thinking. Frankly, his life sounds pretty good to me. He rolls into work whenever he wants, some woman comes over and screws his lights out…probably offers other services, while he’s got no responsibilities. I don’t think he is hurting one bit. If you were designing his life, then yes. It’s off. But he is architect of his life and it seems he’s got it down pat to me…”
Continue reading Running Another Man’s Life, Making His Decisions, Setting His Priorities…
1 Minute Astrology: What People Want vs What You Want Them To Want: Control, Capricorn, Integrity, And Respect
Astrology in Real Life…
From 2007 - With a current T-square the Cardinal signs, people want to control others. Meet, Paul, a regretful control freak who tells a story on Henry...
Tips from the goat.
Many are weighing decisions around leaving or trying to maintain troubled relationships. I wanted elaborate on yesterday’s video – Should I Stay Or Should I Go? Decisions made at this time will have long lasting repercussions. Here are some other things to consider.
Do you own your end when a relationships fails?
Ask the collective
Over the last couple days there have been a slew of comments that characterize Virgos as controlling. I don’t get this at all. I consider the Cardinal signs to be the control freaks of the zodiac without question.
Now don’t get pissed off at me, I have both Capricorn and Libra prominent and it takes one to know but for the people who think Virgos are controlling – Please ‘splain to Lucy.
In my mind, Virgos communicate what is wrong with you and then go off to do their other work. Um…
Who is the control freak King (or Queen) of the zodiac?
Ask the collective…
“A favorite book of mine, one that I am quite passionate about relative to helping people lift the veils of subtle and insidious control is "Controlling People: How to Recognize, Understand, and Deal With People Who Try to Control You " by Patricia Evans. Some of us are more susceptible than others, but it is the m.o. of the world in general and so we don’t even realize what’s happening. The book can be a real eye opener.”
Continue reading Astrology, Love and Control Freaks: What Google Searches Reveal
1 Minute Astrology
I know it takes a lot of courage for a Pisces man to break up with someone. Even though he told me that he still cares a lot about me, I know it’s just to make it seem less difficult – or maybe he’s trying to make himself feel better.
Either way, he just told me he has all these fantasies about love and how it would be filled with “butterflies.” I understand that Pisces are about the imaginative things but butterflies?
I believe that we can get anything/anyone we want in life with the right approach. How do I get him to come back?
You can get anything or anyone you want in life? I am afraid I disagree with you. There are legions of people out there who have lost a friend or a lover, wished for and wanted them back… and failed to have this manifest. The other person has something to say about it.. The other person has free will and as an Aquarian, you should inherently understand this. That people are going to do what they want, that is.
This guy apparently wants to fantasize about butterflies. He might like to see them flying around his beloved’s head… or perhaps they are in his stomach, I don’t know. But he does not want to be in a relationship with you, at least not the one you imagine.
Now here’s a tip: you have Venus and Mars in Aries. You also have planets in Capricorn, Saturn in the first and you wish to control things, especially others. So now you want to get this guy to do something, and I would not be the least bit surprised if this were at the root of why you lost him in the first place.
People don’t like to be controlled and manipulated (Pluto in Scorpio in aspect to Venus and Mars) so when they meet someone controlling and manipulative, they tend to make like a butterfly and fly away.
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1 Minute Astrology – Venus, Neptune, Love And Delusion: People Who Want To Marry You (In Droves) When They Don’t Even Like You…
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This is from 2008, in honor of the current sky where Venus in Leo opposes Neptune and Jupiter in Aquarius which is very similar to the energy in my natal chart. The text below is from February 2009 and requires no update.
I claimed (quite correctly) that at least 40 men had proposed to me in my life and Bella asked on Venus Neptune Getting Married:
What is the astrology for that level of proposal mania?
I stated I had to dodge weddings as if they were bullets and I am reposting this because it takes on a new meaning when you have the back story.
Continue reading 1 Minute Astrology – Venus, Neptune, Love And Delusion: People Who Want To Marry You (In Droves) When They Don’t Even Like You…
“It’s really about control, my body, my mind. Who was going to own it? Them? Or me? I’m not a one-man woman. Bottom line.”
–Nora Darling, She’s Gotta Have It (Spike Lee)
I’ve been doing a lot of thinking lately about control and it what it means to be controlling. Cardinal signs are said to be controlling, address issues of control. The cardinal signs are Aries, Cancer, Libra and Capricorn. They resonate to self/action (Aries) and Mars, home/family (Cancer) and the moon, others/relationships (Libra) and Venus and career/goals (Capricorn) and Saturn.
Continue reading Cardinality, Control And The Angles
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